Help! im really confused! my ex > I just broke up with her last night... she left me for her ex who lives 1000s of miles away. and im right next door! and now she wants me to go to the mall with her... i feel shes using me but shes a good friend in ways... now shes mad... im a girl... and she was my girl...
2006-08-22 07:30:42 · 7 answers · asked by fuzzysparkle182 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she's using you. Maybe she did try to make it out with you, but then decided that her heart belonged to an ex and wants to return to that relationship. But she still wants to have you around, without a mind of what you might feel. Maybe she wants to have you as a safety net in case her ex thing doesn't work, and I think that this is a very likely reason for her behaviour.
It might be that personally, I think that a clean break is best, rather than continue contacting your ex.
2006-08-22 07:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want her as a friend now?? you OBVOUSLY can not just be her friend because you still have feelings for her. Tell her that she has her nerve to hurt you like that then ask you to hang out with her. the reason people date in the first place is because they are trying to find a person they can spen their rest of their lives with. maybe she is just looking for that person and she decided she likes you-but only as a friend. you do not need to be around her at all right now. maybe one day you can be friends with her again, when your feelings for her like that are gone. but not right now,
2006-08-22 07:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has certainly NO reason to be mad at you, you have a suited to be mad at her! that's SO no longer cool for her to try this to you. If she nonetheless desires to cling out, tell her that the two you get returned at the same time and she or he forgets he ex or you're over!
2016-11-05 09:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much going on there. first either she left you or you broke it off with her.. one or the other.
if you want to spend time with her as friends and you think it will work then go to the mall, if not then dont
2006-08-22 07:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'ts best without the ex. Stay away.
2006-08-22 07:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say see ya, friends treat each other with respect!
2006-08-22 07:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by Bobbi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure go ahead if you don't mind all the drama.
2006-08-22 07:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋