im only in 8th grade but i need help!! because i dont want 2 say the wrong thing around my boyfriendd!!
2006-08-22 07:28:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on the boyfriend.. for most guys flirting with another guy, or talking about it, or teasing them (even beware casual teasing until you know his reaction)
Some men are hard to offend others are easy.. my boyfriend i can say almost anything to but he has a few buttons that drive him mad
2006-08-22 07:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here's what you need to know that won't require you to remember much. Don't say anything to your boyfriend (at least until you have known each other for several months) that you would not say to your father. For instance, you wouldn't swear, you wouldn't be disrespectful or insulting etc.
Beyond that, boys at that age generally like to talk about themselves---give him some room to do a little "bragging" to you once in a while. When he starts asking questions about you AND he seems to be genuinely interested in your answers, then you can feel good that they likely have a sincere interest in you as a person and not an ulterior motive for dating you.
Most of all, don't pretend to have interests that you do not----in other words, be yourself!
2006-08-22 14:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ceroulious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no such thing as the wrong thing, as long as you're not just being dumb. don't say stuff like "i want you to ******* punch me hard in the eye" if you don't mean it, for example. but since you can type(sort of), and you can use the internet at all, i'm sure you aren't going to have that sort of problem.
seriously, just say what you mean, and mean it. i would avoid saying the words "i love you", but that's just because in the eighth grade, people threw those words around a lot, and it led to stupid drama. it's best to just assume that you are incapable of loving until after highxchool. good luck!
2006-08-22 14:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by entropicflux 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't worry about it, seriously just be yourself. I would avoid discussing shopping, girl drama, and personal hygiene/make-up though. Movies, books, mutual friends, school, sports (if you know about one or more) are all good topics. Don't freak out too much after the 3rd or 4th date conversation should come very easily. Good luck and be sure to HAVE FUN!
2006-08-22 14:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by Karina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Golly yours is a lot smaller that my last boyfriends!"
Of course I am speaking of remote control airplanes
2006-08-22 14:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋