me and my nana hardley get mad @ one anthor she had i had an attitude but i didnt i swear! i tried talking to her but ( on the phone ) but she didnt say any thing my b-day i 2morrow and i dont wnt this to screw it up how should handle this b4 2morrow pleze help me
2006-08-22 07:22:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
AND ITS B\C OF A PRESENT IT B\C OF WHAT HAPPENED YESTERDAY NOTHING 2 DO W\ MY B-DAY!!!!
2006-08-22 07:35:22 · update #1
well would it be a total disaster if ur nana didn't give u a present?
it's not that big of a deal! it's just a birthday.
try to reason with her and do not get angry! that will only make it worse. good luck! and happy birthday
2006-08-22 07:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, quit thinking about saving your birthday. It's family a little more important than the presents you recieve? How about sending your Nana a card on your birthday. Let her know that you love her and are sorry for the wrong you've done to her. Add in that you want to make it up to her by doing something with her that she would enjoy (ex: trip to the mall, walk in the park, eating at her favorite place) Just letting her know that she means a lot to you and you are sorry should patch things up. Remember, she's your Nana, she loves you and she isn't going to stay mad for ever. It's near impossible. Do something to work through your relationship with her, then focus on your birthday... you get many of them, but only one Nana.
2006-08-22 14:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that kinda shallow of you to want to make ammends just cause tomorrow is your birthday? Your nana is gonna love you no matter what, if you were out of line, apologize. Why would she say you were acting a certain way, you probably were. You be the big person and tell her you're sorry. Shame on you for getting an attitude with your nana....Happy Birthday tomorrow!
2006-08-22 14:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you apologize???? Teenagers seldom think they have an attitude, adults know otherwise. You sound like you're more worried about your birthday getting ruining (and supposedly no present from her) than your nana's feelings. Think of someone besides yourself for a change. Apologise to your nana, hopefully she'll get over you being a teenager. She's raised kids, after all, she knows they can be little snots at times. Good luck.
2006-08-22 14:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she thought you were having an attitude and you weren't then maybe she is the one having a bad day. Call her on the phone again and tell her you love her. Ask her if everything is all right with her. Remind her that people who love each other need to forgive each other. Good luck!
2006-08-22 14:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and apologize even if you feel you've said or done nothing wrong. Pride has ruined relationships between friends and family members, and don't let this be one of those times. Sometimes we say things or act in ways that hurt others without realizing we've done anything, and many of us older people sometimes think you kids have "attitudes" when you're just acting your age. Don't mention your birthday; call her and talk to her.
2006-08-22 14:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u trying to get your nana to talk to you b/c your b-day is tomorrow? if so shame on you. ask your nana if you did something to upset her and see if you can make it better. if not let her cool down, but don't ignore her you don't want something bad to happen that you regret this whole situatution. (that goes for the both of you)
2006-08-22 14:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean nana as an grandmother???? if you do, send her a present on your b-day, let her know that if it wasn't because of her you wouldn't be in this world....say "Thank you"
She's your nana and I'm sure that will make her happy and not mad at you anymore.
2006-08-22 14:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by lf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her and say you love her and don't want her mad at you and that if you had a bad attitude that your sorry. We all have bad days and I bet if you apologise that is all that it would take. Be sincere and if she says anything else that makes you mad keep your peace. One cannot fight with themself.
2006-08-22 14:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by Skeeter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a spoiled rotten, greedy little sorry excuse for a grandchild. Some birthdays are just going to suck. I'm guessing that until you get some education, all of yours will suck.
2006-08-22 14:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋