My friend is asking me to help her have an abortion she is a little girl who does not know what she is doing!(she is only15) How can I convince her not to do this??? im completely against abortion especially in the stage she is in right now she is 3months pregnant … she even puts her self at risk all the time!! I don’t want her to lose the baby I been thinking a lot my self to ask her to have it and to give it to me even dough it’s a big responsibility for me but I adore babies and my bf does too the problem is that my parents would not like me stop with my carrier but I would give it up to save a babys life wat do I do help I need options please and thx!???
2006-08-22 07:22:04 · 8 answers · asked by *********** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You out to do what's best for you or best for her? "I adore babies" So what? Convince her to talk with her parents as a good friend should. Tell her you will be there with her if she needs to tell her parents. She needs to know that she should give them a chance to be supportive. You need to leave your desires and knee jerk emotions out of this. Be a real friend.
2006-08-25 05:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by here_nor_there 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to tell your friend that you do not agree with abortions. If you are over 15 and are speaking about a carrier... how is she your friend... and you too are not married to give that child 2 parents... sad babies having babies.
2006-08-22 14:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you're worried about her putting herself at risk, but having a baby at 15 is extremely dangerous.
You obviously have no idea what a HUGE responsibility it is to have a child in your care. Would you give a puppy to a two-year-old who "adores" puppies? It's no different giving a newborn to a 15-year-old. They are not emotionally or financially equipped to handle full-time child care.
You have to let your friend make her own decisions. If she's really your friend, support her. Don't make this time in her life even harder.
2006-08-22 14:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you want the baby. Its really wrong for her to abort I would feel the same way too. Try for the baby's life!!
2006-08-22 14:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Incredible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is far too young both physically and mentally to have a child. Get the child an abortion, get rid of the man who impregnated her and let her play with her toys and blocks as she should.
2006-08-22 14:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her ur willing to take care of the baby once she's born. if all else fails, show her some pics of an aborted baby; if that doesn't change her mind, then i honestly don't know what will.
2006-08-22 14:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let her go thru it...It's the worst decision anybody can make at any age. Talk with her tell her there are other better ways to go than abortion..Abortion is plainly wrong!
2006-08-22 14:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by mr.asz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing you need to do as her friend as you say is tell her parents right now.
2006-08-22 14:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋