2006-08-22 07:19:48 · 34 answers · asked by torievgb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not much info there to go on. How old is he. How open are you with your feelings?
How long have you two been together?
2006-08-22 07:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by LORI W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's different for each person. Some believe that how a person reacts to another persons feelings are based on their zodiac. A cancer hides away from feelings, they don't like to show them or be shown, so they close up in their shell. It's like an on off switch they they'd prefer to leave off. Aquarius feels all the feelings that you do, but they play aloof. They don't want you to know how they feel about you or what you are saying. It's a fear thing. Of course it could also be a problem on your end too... are you sharing your true feelings? Telling the guy straight out? Cause if you're not, please remember that just like women, guys can not read minds.
2006-08-22 07:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are not mind readers. If you don't tell us something we are going to have a hard time figuring it out just by starring at you and focusing real hard. Also the male brain is different from the female brain.
"Baron-Cohen's theory is that the female brain is predominantly hard-wired for empathy, and that the male brain is predominantly hard-wired for understanding and building systems. He calls it the empathising-systemising (E-S) theory.
Empathising is the drive to identify another person's emotions and thoughts, and to respond to these with an appropriate emotion. The empathiser intuitively figures out how people are feeling, and how to treat people with care and sensitivity.
Systemising is the drive to analyse and explore a system, to extract underlying rules that govern the behaviour of a system; and the drive to construct systems."
google "male vs female brain" for more info
2006-08-22 07:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by imbrue001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys and girls are "wired" differently. We have different emotions, in different degrees, for different reasons.
Our emotions follow our thoughts. Guys and girls think differently, which is why we have different emotions.
People of either sex would do well to learn about how the other sex THINKS, so we understand why they feel the way they do.
Our society is saturated with wrong ideas about the male-female relationship, which causes all kinds of problems. But you can work them out in your own relationships without fixing everybody else at the same time.
2006-08-22 07:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by Baxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a nice question nor it a smart question. How can you expect us guys to read your true feeling when you can't even read yours ? We do care about you and willing to try to understand your true feelings. It's just that your mind can sometime be so complicated, plus that you have so many "ladies' tricks" to throw at us : "reverse psy", "yes means no, no means yes" , "beating around the bushes" , "I like him but I don't want him to know" , "I like to flirt to other guys or his friends to piss him off or to get his attention" ...etc.. , just to name a few .
To be fair , we do care about you ladies , so help us out a little . Can't sit there and expect us to read your true feeling when you already know that your feeling or mind can sometime be a chaos and complicated.
Good luck .
2006-08-22 07:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by ilove_oral69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a girl's true feeling change by the hour
2006-08-22 07:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by butnozzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok now this is the way it is men only have 1 thing on there mind from a young age tell a old age that is puss i know what im telling you but you will get sooner or later ask some what they are thing about most of the time he tell the true it will be sex
2006-08-22 07:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by do it good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a bit more specific...guys don't tend to pick up on subtlety (in general) as well as chicks do...so unless a woman strips naked in front of them, they may not get that she's attracted to them physically...unless she yells or becomes completely silent, they may not pick up on the fact that she's angry...if they don't see tears, they may not grasp sadness...and if she says "i'm fine" they'll likely take her at her word, even if she's really not fine...
We're simply wired differently...and women tend to be more emotional than men and more perceptive ABOUT emotions...guys aren't "dumbe" when it comes to women's feelings...they simply aren't designed to pick up on them very easily...and too many women expect guys to be mind readers...they generally are not...
2006-08-22 07:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because a girl doesnt have any true feelings.
They shift like the wind.
Guys arent mind readers. You have to open your mouth.
2006-08-22 07:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls are so dumb when it comes to telling us what they want.
2006-08-22 07:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by Shadow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋