Well i know there is allot of different little things girls find attractive about guys. Im sure it veries from girl from girl to girl but. I think there is some universal law of attraction that girls look for. So can any lady answer this question.
2006-08-22 06:57:28 · 38 answers · asked by business creature 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a sense of humour, a guy who treats a woman like a lady, loyal, sensitive and an all around good guy! Plus easy on the eyes!
2006-08-22 07:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Attitude. Like you said, there are many things and combination of things. But I would think it's a combo of relaxation and self-assurance that first attracts a woman (not "girls" honey - they don't know what they want!). When you are relaxed, unpretentious and self-assured it shows in the way you walk, the way you hold yourself, your smile; it gleams in your eyes; it exudes like some male pheromone calling "here I am, ladies". Now I'm not talking about being stuck-up or stuck on yourself and thinking you're "all that". If you have this, you don't have to worry about being short/tall/muscular/scrawney or anything else physical. I'm talking about honestly liking yourself; no b.s., no judgments; you treat the fat girl, the skinny girl, the homely girl, all the same. You dance with them all; you smile at them all. You're a gentleman. But when you radar in on one that you really are attracted to, you're like a bulldog with a bone. So think about that, oh cute one, and master your own self-assurance. You'll be swatting the gals off like flies on honey....mmmummm, ummmm. Oh...and employment is meaningful also!
2006-08-22 07:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a guy who can make me laugh!WHO listens when i talk and is honest.A guy who shows emotions and has no problems with holding my hand, hugging me and telling me he loves me.One who cares and shows it and one who is good in bed and cares if your pleased as well as hI'mself.A man who works and wants things in life and is confident.A man i can count on and a shoulder to cry on when i need it, just someone i know that will be there.And a man who looks at me and no other women and makes me feel like im the most beautiful women on the planet!I guess those are the qualities i look for in a man!!
2006-08-22 07:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is, sir, that there ISN'T some universal law of attraction. the closest thing i can think of is, women like men who are physically attractive, but even that is just so subjective. i mean, i like men who are skinny(almost to the point of gaunt)and calm, but other women like men who are beefy and vibrant.
another good one is confidence. confidence, confidence, confidence. not only is it hard to type repeatedly in quick succession, it's also very difficult to pull off without crossing the border into "i'm a big prick" land. be confident, but don't be cocky or arrogent. be assured in your position and ability, but don't brag and don't show off. give people the benifit of the doubt, but remain at least skeptical.
2006-08-22 07:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by entropicflux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guys eyes say a lot. they r windows to his soul. thats the first thing i look at. he should nt be all over all the girls. some girls like bad boys, personally i like a shy guy not to geeky has to have some kind of style. and be confident in himself. not a playboy just a person who can be a friend. to any relationship a friendship is the first step. must respect women and not use them like toys. must love his mom.
2006-08-22 07:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i'd say that all girls look for personality above all because you can be the sexiest man alive but if you have a "holier than thou" attitude, you are so ugly. Seriously, REAL women hate a vain man and a man who can't step up and be a man!!! ok, bye.
2006-08-22 07:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by elr212006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women in modern culture are able to provide so much for themselves, a new alpha male has emerged as desirable material: Confidence without overcompensating arrogance, intelligent sensitivity being careful not to indulge in being emotionally wishy washy too often.
2006-08-22 07:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by here_nor_there 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What drives me crazy about a guy is the things he says if his smart or even kind. I like funny guys but they must be funny and not cheesy I dont like guys to try to hard. Just be your self and BE REAL thats what get me going.
2006-08-22 07:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy who can spell, who uses proper syntax, someone who isn't a misogynist (woman hater, genius) one who doesn't have major anger issues, someone who isn't unbelievably insecure, with serious control issues, someone who doesn't try to pick up girls (on a forum that's completely inappropriate for that) when they obviously are in a relationship, who's avatar picture looks like a dildo with bad poser facial hair, and someone who doesn't want to (or maybe HAVE to is a better assumption) hypnotize their partner so that they can rape them and defecate (sh#t, genius) on them...Ya know, someone who isn't a complete idiot with no class. In short someone who is NOTHING LIKE YOU! You must be kidding thinking you're gonna pick up girls on this site when all they have to do is look at your Q&A's to see that you are a psycho freak with innaproprate anger who hates women. Yeah, your some catch.
2006-08-24 19:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by wendy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
constructive, women might desire to ask adult males on dates. there is not any longer something incorrect with it. I say choose for it! Take of venture! i do no longer think of asking with the aid of fb is in basic terms too desperate. If this is the only way so which you will arise with him, then what decision do you have? good success! i'm hoping he says confident. :)
2016-10-02 10:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by carolan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋