I called Maury about 2 months ago about Paternity tests and told them my situation. They called yesterday and said they want me as a guest. I have a 3 year old and my husband is NOT the father. He thinks he is and loves our son. He will be crushed when he finds out and to make things worse, he is a highschool teacher. Maury show said they are going to tell him someone has a secret to tell him when they call. He will go if I go with him. WhAT WOULD YOU DO?
2006-08-22 06:56:17 · 16 answers · asked by guess who? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why didn't you tell him before? Obviously he will be VERY angry and will probably never trust you again - which you deserve.
I would have told him the truth right off the bat and not do it on national tv - what is the matter with you???????
If I were you and thank heavens I am not, I would tell him without embarrasing him on tv - you obviously have no respect for him.
2006-08-22 07:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would have told my husband while i was pregnant i would not go on national t.v and drop that on ANYONE it's not a acceptable way to handle personal family issues. BTW you seem to like asking question that you MUST know will anger people like: I'm 6 months pregnant smoke and drink vodka should i switch to beer. I do hope you are using those and this question to just get attention and you are not this SCREWED UP OF A PERSON. If you truly drink and smoke and have children and lie to the dad about them being his you need some real help check into a rehab center and get your life in order.
2006-08-22 14:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go on Maury. And if the child wasn't my husband's, I wouldn't wait three years to tell him. Just get a paternity test done locally and save yourself the embarrassment of going on t.v.
2006-08-22 14:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible, how could you lie to your husband about his child? That is very selfish of you. No, you should not take him on national tv to tell this man his child is not his. Grow some F*CKING balls and tell him your damn self in the privacy of your home. Hopefully he will remain in the child's life but leave your lying cheating a**! I don't get people like you that do this, this is very detrimental to your husband as well as your child. Start packing your bags now cuz you got to go!!
2006-08-22 14:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by KansasCityGirl26 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very personal issue that only YOU can answer. It must be bothering you, to make that decission of wanting him to know the truth. You have to take things into consideration though, like
him being a highschool teacher, do you really want to embarrass him nationally? Is that your ONLY option? After answering these questions, the decission is yours.
2006-08-22 14:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to distroy what your son and his father have,because he is the father,more so than your other doner, and to do it on national TV would be even more hurtfull. If it's just to satisify yourself, find some other way. Keep it private.
2006-08-22 14:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by dave2290 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the he ll do you feel compelled to let him find out on national tv? Be straight with him at the house. Pay the 400 to get one done.
2006-08-22 14:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by Supa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you tell him about your crack habit.
Taking someone on national tv to completely crush and humilliate them might sound like the right answer but....most people wouldn't be so cruel.
2006-08-22 14:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, May God Bless Your Child, and then Your Husband.
2006-08-24 16:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it; hey, free food, flight, accomodations... u can't beat that. i just hope it offsets the humiliation ur husband--- if he's still around--- will feel at being told something so personal in front of millions of strangers.
2006-08-22 14:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋