I just got out of a relationship with my ex. She dumped me. I still have huge feelings for this girl but she shows none for me. i need to know how to get over her. she is pregnant with our child. my ex wont even talk to me. i want to be there for our child and i am deeply in love with her, but i am also killing myself because i still love her so much. What do i do?
2006-08-22 06:54:40 · 7 answers · asked by drew46759 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i messed up, i tried to keep a friendship with my ex when my girl was not comfortable with it.
2006-08-22 10:05:59 · update #1
Step back and let her have some time to think!!!
2006-08-22 07:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know it's hard, but I think you need to get over her, there are other people out there and it does not seem like she is open for rekindling your realtionship so the best thing for you is to try to move on without her...however, you do need to talk to her because if she is carrying your child, then you have parental rights as a father and she can't keep your child from you without a valid reason. So, you need to speak with her in regards to the future of a mutual, nonromantic relationship for the child.
2006-08-22 14:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Meggo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you . You must have done something to have made her so pist off at you.
No matter what problems there is between you and her the right of being the father of that child can't be taken from you unless you are a threat to yourself and the baby.
Be patient, some women hate their hubby's when they are pregnant, we can't help feeling the way we do. Just be there for her distantly, don't get to close to her personal space, when she is ready she will come around.
Show her that you are a responsible man, that works and keeps it together. Things happen for a reason.
Good Luck!
2006-08-22 14:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she won't talk to you, it doesn't look like she even wants to entertain getting back together with you. Love hurts, you just need to love yourself, and love your child, and try to be the best father you can be.
You need to give yourself some time to get over her, I suggest that you keep busy with other stuff, your work, your friends. Do things to keep your mind off the situation. Eventually, with time, you'll feel better and can start looking for someone that's right for you.
2006-08-22 14:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheated then it may take much longer for her to forgive you. The best thing is to give her limited space....let her know that you want to be involved in the child's life and attend the doctor's appointments with her....contribute finacially..etc...If she really loves you she will see that you have changed and in time forgive you.
2006-08-22 14:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL, ITS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD. THERE IS STILL HOPE LEFT. THINK POSITIVE. AND REMOVE ALL THAT CLUTTER OUT OF YOUR MIND. FIGURE OUT WHAT'S BOTHERING HER..IS IT YOU OR IS IT SOMETHING ELSE IN HER LIFE THAT'S STRESSING HER OUT. SOMETHING MUST BE WRONG..MAYBE SHE ISN'T READY FOR THIS CHILD...OR SHE'S JUST SIMPLY SCARED. TALK TO HER FRIENDS MAYBE...AND FIND OUT...SEND HER FLOWERS WITH CUTE NOTES...AND TELL HER THAT YOU WANT TO BE THERE FOR HER AND THE CHILD. LET HER KNOW THAT YOU WON'T ABANDON HER.
2006-08-22 14:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Trinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow tough--I don't think i can help u---why the breakup---what caused the separation
2006-08-22 14:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋