my friend is in love with a guy that is 18 yrs older than her. she is going to marry him when she turnes 18 and he is going to wait for her. They are in love ,but is it wrong????
2006-08-22 06:52:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wrong ??
If it feelz good - Do it !!!
2006-08-22 06:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Pat R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is many different answers to that, depending on how u look at it. But love is love, nobody could control the heart and what it loves. For him to wait for her until she turns 18 is pretty awsome. He's a good man, and willing to put in the effort to make things work. I guess in this situation, it's totally right, since they both know where they stand.
2006-08-22 14:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by baseelement5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!!!!! But there's nothing anyone can do once she turns 18 so just try to introduce her to guys her age and let her know that much older guys only want a young girl that they can mislead and boss around. Hope she's a strong woman who knows what she wants and doesn't take any of her man's crap that he will throw towards her. ok, bye
2006-08-22 14:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by elr212006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's making a big mistake, rushing into marriage with someone who has a distinct advantage over her, that of his age and relative experience. The worst part of this is that it's hard to try and make someone see their error. Your friend is trying to grow up through him, instead of enjoying dances, parties, college, and hanging out with friends, having the experiences that are normal to maturing into adulthood. Young people try to be older and older people try to be younger, because they missed out on these normal growing-up experiences. I'm generalizing, because you sound like you've got a good head on your shoulders, and are taking life as it comes, not as it is forced on you. This is a forced situation between them, and anything forced is morally wrong, in my opinion.
2006-08-22 14:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old is ur friend, second the age difference could be a problem in the furture, their at 2 different points in their lives and that might interfere with their love life,
2006-08-22 14:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they're really in love, nothing is wrong. just let them be happy!
2006-08-22 14:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jennyfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what she is too young and that is just to old for anybody.
2006-08-22 14:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by LADY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes legally and morally...he's old enough to be her dad!!!
2006-08-22 14:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. kind of creepy too.
2006-08-22 13:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by bullfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill he can be her father!
2006-08-22 15:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by alex_anrda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋