even though we are best friends and when i see her sitting with another guy i feel sick? (even though the guy is great and I have nothing against him)
2006-08-22 06:51:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no such thing
2006-08-22 06:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her. To hell with her friendship. She'll just end up crying on your shoulder when she gets dumped like you're some girl, and borrowing money off you. You don't want to be known as the "I can tell him my problems guy" - because then you have to hear all about how some other guy is b*lling her and meanwhile you're not getting ANY! Don't be a fruit.
If you want a friend, get a dog. Tell the skank b*tch to take a hike. Grow a pair!
Learn early to patronize strippers and hookers. Appreciate an honest orgasm for your time and money!
PS If you are lucky, a decade or two from now she will be a fat, alcoholic slob with some snot-nosed kids, whose husband just left her. She will come back into your life and ask for another chance, and you can have the pleasure of kicking her when she's down and telling her to f*** off.
PPS I hope this doesn't not make me sound bitter or anything. ;)
2006-08-22 14:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she knows how u feel and you have told her you are/were interested and her response is that "she values the relationship too much..." then in that case, she is really being nice to you without trying to break your heart. Swallow your emotion for a moment, step away and start spending time with other friends (maybe some you have neglected over the months or something) and as your attention is diverted, you wont have your present emotion soo concentrated on her. You never know, one of your other friends may have a friend for you to meet..and then you will be saying to yourself "why did i waste that time crying over the other girl." Life is short, my friend. And take it for what its worth, the time you are wasting punching yourself in the stomach over her, you could be using! Its understandable you like this girl, and im sure you have heard all of the cliche's about love will come along again. Well, all of them are true, but you are the only one who can start that process. I think a little separation is needed from her to let your emotions calm down. Be realistic and move on. Then, maybe when you are ready to be her friend, by that time she will realize what she missed out on.
2006-08-22 14:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Knick101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you'll never "get over" love. But it can change from romantic love.......to a more of a love of the whole person and maybe a love of a new found friendship.
As far as you feeling sick about the other guy, you shouldn't, because he will never share the same things you shared with this young lady, and that is something special only you have, and he can never know that.
You can never have too many friends, cherish each and every one like rare gems, all are of great value.
2006-08-22 14:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by kurvantidevidasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like her? I think that spending time away from her will keep you from getting feelings of jealousy. That's how it is when you have friends of the opposite sex. You will always see her with other guys and she will not think of your feelings. When you find that special girl, your friendship will not be like it used to be with this friend of yours. She might even experience the same feelings as you. I've had a guy friend from childhood and he was in the same situation as you are and once he spent time on his own and found someone-- I'ts like I never even existed. In other words, he stopped talking to me for a while. His girl did not let him talk to me, and when you're in love-- you do anything for the person you love.
A girlfriend will not let you have other friends that are girls. Vice versa..... I know from experience.
2006-08-22 14:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by rainysky26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh but dont take it out on the other guy/s is not their fault she cant love u, besides if u cant have a relationship, there nothing else better than being freinds, at least u will both get to know each other, n maybe u can end up being more someday, if u decide u want to wait...or u can go out diff places, maybe u will met somoen else, dont just settle for one now, if ur young, the right one will come along sooner or later, dont rush it
2006-08-22 15:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by saijjan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Road to resentment dude. You want something she doesn't feel, which will cause you to give things she'll accept but won't reciprocate, and you'll just get pissed. You can't help who you're attracted to or not attracted to and neither can she. Say a very nice goodbye, so sorry, wish ya all the best luv, and move on.
2006-08-22 14:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What else is there to do?
Come clean and tell the girl how you feel... it s u c k s, I know to see that she'll never "see" you the way you want her to.
I mean, realistically you can't make someone like you either. Make a choice to part ways or express to her your feelings.
2006-08-22 14:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, separate yourself from her....she's being nice by telling you she values your friendship....thats how girls let you down...in a nice way. So basically, stop sitting there looking at her with other guys and move on...read between the lines my friend....SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU!! Time to move on.....
2006-08-22 13:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her plain and simple, "I like you and i want you to be my girlfriend." I mean its not a problem saying it since you two are best friends. But if she says no, just take some time off from her
2006-08-22 14:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by Blitzkrieg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try as hard as you can to get over her, every instance I've seen of friends getting together ends up with both people and alot of friendships getting distroyed. It's not worth it.
2006-08-22 14:00:08 · answer #11 · answered by Austin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋