We dated for 1 1/2 years and he signed up for the air force, we talk everyday, sometimes several times a day. We tell each other we love the other and miss them dearly. He gets jealous when I tell him about other guys asking me out. But if I get jealous of his friends that are girls...its a big production and then our friendship is put on the line. What do you think?
2006-08-22 06:43:53 · 13 answers · asked by curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop living in the past find another for your heart to love
2006-08-22 06:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by longfellow j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa... that's tough.
It sounds to me that you 2 are a disaster waiting to happen. Obviously both of you have strong feelings for each other because of the possessiveness the 2 of you have & arguments over others which are probably harmless.
Sad to say... you must make a choice now, to really be his steady or risk losing your friendship.
With the way it's going now, the 2 of you would just end up hating each other.
It's your call at the end of the day. What does your heart tell you? If he's truly the "one" for you... hold on to him and work at it (the relationship)
Best of luck.
2006-08-22 06:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you get yourself a hot, sexy rebound guy. If you start sleeping with/dating someone else, someone you really like, you'll be surprised how easily the good thoughts and feelings will force out the bad. Air Force Guy doesn't need to know a thing if you are no longer together. Just tell him you're happy.
2006-08-22 06:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by miguelitabonita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he really cares about you and doesn't want to see you with someone else. If these friends of his that are girls are all over him, you have a reason to be jealous. Tell him if you still want to be with him, but if you don't, then start dating other people. And encourage him to do the same.
2006-08-22 06:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god, things like that hardly EVER work. It's a VERY rare occassion when they do... I wish you luck! But, I also think you should tell him that it's just too hard. After all, you're not supposed to be the kind of girl that sits around waiting like a damsel in distress! Good luck!
2006-08-22 06:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't have it both ways - either you're both free or your both attached. That jealousy of his will eventually kill your friendship if he doesn't get it under control. Also it's really none of his business who you see, so don't talk about that (unless you're trying to get his goat, which isn't cool). It wouldn't hurt if you didn't talk so much too - slowly cut back on that. Give yourself time and room to breath.
2006-08-22 06:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by Loresinger99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date someone else. Stop talking to him every day. Stop telling him that you love him. If you want to get over him, you have to stop acting like a couple.
2006-08-22 06:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be friends with someone you are in love with. You need to seperate yourself from that situation. It's better to not be friends with him, that have him in your life and you continue to get wrapped up in it. Find a new man, friends don't get jealous.
2006-08-22 06:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by Riss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's the deal...if he really saw a future with you would he have signed up for the Air Force? The answer is no!! Time to move on.....he is....with or without your consent.
2006-08-22 06:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to stop being friends for now!!!
2006-08-22 06:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋