i feel really lonely and i'm not a slut . i just don't want to be lonely
2006-08-22 06:42:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop looking - that is what I have been told!
2006-08-22 06:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by Amazing Magenta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lots of people do feel that way. Welcome to the club, I am for one feeling lonely. The thing is that u shouldn't work hard on that to get a boyfriend. Go along with ur own life, but be more open, have more spirit. U will notice alot of men showing interest in u, and chances r u will have to make a choice of who interests u most. ;) That is if you r looking 4 a long lasting relationship. Trust me, I am a man and sure of how it works.
2006-08-22 13:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by baseelement5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for a boyfriend. People are attracted to other people who are having fun, who are confident, and who are comfortable just being themselves. If you're out doing something you enjoy, and having fun yourself, the people around you will notice and pick up on that vibe, and they'll find themselves wanting to be around you. On the other hand, if you're sending off an "I'm desperately looking for someone" vibe, they'll run for the hills.
So, stop thinking about getting a boyfriend. Go out and do something you enjoy--whether it's shopping at the mall, or browsing books in the library, or just taking a walk in the park. Find things that *you* enjoy doing. We all knew how to do it when we were younger and had free time--just relax, and think about the things you have fun doing, and then go out and do one. You'll find that when you stop thinking about what other people think of you, and stop worrying about not having a boyfriend, and just start enjoying yourself, that you get an instant +5 charisma boost, and a +5 sexiness boost. People will notice you, make no mistake about it!
So go out, have some fun, and stop worrying--and then come back in a week or two and ask how to fend them all off. ;)
Good luck!
2006-08-22 13:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by mpetach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friends if they know anyone that you'd like. And to get a BOYFRIEND takes time, to get a RANDOM GUY is the quickest thing - not exactly the greatist idea though
2006-08-22 13:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by ηιgнт ѕтαя 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Stop looking !!! This feeling happened because you thought of it . Just let it go. Be happy on whatever you do. Be proud of yourself, Mr.right will come to you. The fastest way to get is the fastest to lose... Get it right but slow is better than losing it. So let it be .... believe in destiny.
2006-08-22 14:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by PEAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a guy out. That's the fastest way to get a guys attention. If you sit around waiting for a guy it may never come.
2006-08-22 13:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Supa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you either need to be really hot or really outgoing. Only those two can get you a boyfriend "on the spot"
2006-08-22 13:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign onto some online personals:Yahoo Personals, eHarmony, match.com, true.com
2006-08-22 13:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and dont sweat your single self. Relationships happen when theyre supposed to happen. Enjoy the single life!!!
2006-08-22 13:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by browneyes12399 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proactive and make an effort to meet and talk to different blokes
2006-08-22 13:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a puppy and a gold fish and let the men come to u
2006-08-22 13:49:29 · answer #11 · answered by blonde chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋