Why are so many Black women hate on white women with Black men?

Question

many black women have a problem with a black guy with a white women. If u don't like it then keep it to your self, some black guys say they love their skin or shaven pubes or hair. is this a european opperssion thing from history or human love people who look/smell/taste/sound/culture is different from their own??
by the way i enjoy the company of white women. not cause their easy or p*ssy is cleasner. just becuase i've had better experiences with them.

Answer 1

It's not because black women are hating on white woman. Society tells black women they are less than desirable unless it comes to sex then they are seen as only sexual beings. Look at professional athletes they date only black women and as soon as they make it big they switch to white women as if they have received a prize. If you date someone of another race then that's fine as long as you don't make your own race feel as if they are somehow beneath you and the person you have chosen to date. Think about it you can name countless white women who are considered beautiful and very few black women who are considered the same. They usually have to be extremely light skinned or mixed to be called beautiful. Black women are told that their natural attributes are less than beautiful unless a white woman decides she likes it first. (full lips, wide hips, big butts) Before you get the idea i am against it I have dated almost all races and look first at the inside of a person not at the outside. i am what would be considered mixed even though I prefer Milti- ethnic.

Answer 2

Well to say you stole a Black man might not be the truth. If you have a Black man that has a self hate image of himself you really have no man at all. Now if he loves his Black women but found you and fell for you then you might have something for Black women to be jeolous of. I do not think Black women hate White women persay. They more often then not blame the Black man for that. I think what might piss them off is a well built Black man who is successful dating an overweight White woman that looks like she was a star on Hee Haw. I think brothers that date the love of their life who happens to be White does not anger Black women as much. They are down with love just not the racial dating that goes on.

Answer 3

In the days of slavery and hardcore racism, the only way of survival for the "blacks" was putting their heads together to form a community. This was how they survived in the hateful/racist society. This "black community" moved and did everything together...good and evil and this association created a stereotype.

But with the fall in racism, a black person no longer needs to remain in that "community" to survive. Nowadays, you find some cities with just a few "black" persons and they don't see that need to associate with each other. This maybe because some of them just like every other human being never enjoys being stereotyped.

This leads to "blacks" especially the successful ones trying to break out of the "black community" to be individuals on their own and not seen as being a part of that community or stereotype. Dating outside their race is believed to be a handful tool to break out of that "community/stereotype"

It is very natural for black women to feel uncomfortable when they see their male counterparts dating white women. This is mainly because some "blacks" still believe there is racism and strongly uphold that "black community". So when they see one of thier "brothers" or "sisters" dating outside that community, to them you are a "sell out" or turning your back on your people.

But times have changed now and are still changing, and things would be more relaxed in the future and hopefully, the "black community" would be more receptive of the whites.

I believe Black men even show more hatred when they see their female counterparts dating white men and this could be a reason why you have very few black woman/white man relationships.....

It is up to everyone to know who they can "be" with and have a relationship with them. This has nothing at all to do with clean p*ssy or being easy.....that bit made your question sound a bit awkward....

Answer 4

I really don't know why I am responding to this question seeing that some of the statements made by original poster are completely absurd. But anyway here goes…

As far as some black women getting mad, I think most of it comes from the insults hurled their way by some of the black men and being disrespected with absurd remarks such as the one's made above. If you want to date outside of your race, it's your call....your preference. But be a man about it and don't use other people as an excuse for your choices.

I have dated outside of my race and make no excuses for it. It's all about the individual and how he treats me. I am completely open to dating men of all races and nationalities and I do not need a bogus excuse to justify it.

Answer 5

LOL. Black women don't like it when white women go out with black men because white women have it all already. What have they struggled with in life? Nothing. And now, they are just going to take what black women have left---black men.

It doesn't bother me but I have black female friends who all say the same thing. It especially bothers them when its a good black man (e.g., educated, financially stable, good looking, etc.).

And what is this about shaven pubes? lol. A lot of women shave their pubic hairs...not just white women. By the way, hearing this from a lot of black men...sleeping with a white woman doesn't even compare to sleeping with a black woman...the latter is better. Again..these are just things that I have heard from people.

Answer 6

Wow a black person saying black women are racist??I think their problem is they want their race to carry on being black same as some white people want to keep theirs.I say live and let live a person is a person not a colour.

Answer 7

One reason because they treat them so much better.Most black men who date them act like they hate their race. LOVE IS COLORBLIND LOVE THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE NOT WHAT THEY ARE. A LOT OF MEN DATE THEM JUST BECAUSE THEY AREN'T BLACK. Maybe you just haven't dated a real black beautiful woman yet don't limit yourself you will miss out you never know who Gods sends your way keep an open and an open heart
love

Answer 8

Vagina does not taste smell or look any different because of race a pU$$y is a pu$$y no matter what. If you are used to dirty hood rats that dont bathe and keep their pu$$y smelling like fish then you need to think about who you keep yourself around . Maybe your not attractive enough for a decent looking black female.

Answer 9

Its 2006 as a black woman i say go out with whoever in the hell you want to date. Whatever!!
Black women who are threatened obviously have inferior complex about themselves already. If you dated a light skinned woman they would be the same ones saying oh he only dates light skin girls. If you date a latina they will say oh he only dates hispanic women cos they look white
Its all bull **** and insecurity, at the end of the day its not easy to find someone to love so when you get on like a house on fire with anyone you should cherish it
All this excuses of black women feeling ugly is Bullshit, when you got halle berry and beyonce on the tv and radio every second of the day with every race finding them attractive
Its called Globalization and its here to stay, you go and be with who you want to be with and vice versa
from a black woman who doesnt give a rats ***

Answer 10

You had to be there, a melting pot. Don't stand and think just embrace the 1960's and do not overthink.