Are all girls shallow people?

Question

Ok check it 18 months ago i was just an average joe not much looks and a puny body, no girl wanted to know me, now 18 months of going gym and getting a buff body now all the girls dont leave me alone, are all girls shallow people who look for physical attractivness over personality?

Answer 1

If you're going to places like bars or clubs to pick up, your physical appearance is the first thing they get to evaluate. If they are choosing between you and some other guy, they probably just assume that you are both equally likely to have a good personality, so they may as well go for the guy with the looks (and improved physical stamina) on top of that.

It's not because they only want a guy with a good body, or because they expect you to fight for them. Perhaps they appreciate the fact that you put time and effort into improving yourself.

A lot of women put time and effort into their bodies and appearances, and regardless of their reasons for doing so, they know that you will enjoy that on some level if you hook up with them. Some of these women are content to go out with unattractive men, but it can be nice for them to know that their partner is willing to put in a bit of extra effort to make himself attractive for them too.

So, these girls are not all shallow. In fact, once they get to know about your attitude towards them, most girls will probably be more interested in other guys who are less buff, but more understanding and less judgemental. Judgemental guys are no fun to be with..

Answer 2

First off for that guy that said most girls are shallow, its because its guys like you that make us that way. And for the most part not really. You have your popular peeps-jocks, preps, cheerleaders. Some of them are really nice and talk to basically everyone. Than you have then you have your average person-know a lot a people and for them sot part really friendly. You have wannabees who want to be popular, they are really stupid and for the most part stuck. Than come your nerds and geeks and they are the real shallow ones. For the most part, most of the girls are pretty nice, just choose wisely about who you hang out with and who you tell what to. Some people are seem nice but in high school there are a lot of 2 faced people. Just know that no matter how nice some one may seem to be, you always have to watch your own back. High school will either make you or break you and a lot of people break because of how they long to fit in, and they turn on you right before your eyes they could be your best friend one minute and your enemy the next. High school is a different place and a lot bigger. It has many nice people but just as many a holes.

Answer 3

Not a chance......... but you do get what you look for in a woman. So you can be with those woman that are all over you because now you are buff, or you can look for the girl that is really not impressed by your body. Its your choice. The one that is not impressed and isn't showing you all kinds of attention after the fact is the one and are the ones that want a man that is real and not fake. Are you a man that is shallow and wants the girls with all the good looks and body to follow? Because that is what it sounds like here, and you want to know if all women are shallow but it sounds to me as if your actually bragging a bit. Which is cool!! Brag it up and enjoy your new attention, but please don't lose face in the kind of woman you actually want. If you don't want someone to be with you because of your body, but yet for your personality, then look for the same in the woman of your choosing. And don't try to change her or her body once your with her, life doesn't work that way and neither do people.... or at least they shouldn't. You want to be loved for you and the person you are, then love them for them and the person they are. Blessed be.

Answer 4

No, not all girls are shallow. It's just that girls looks for a more physically fit body, than, say, a skinny or slightly overwaight one. A physically fit body sends a message to a woman that you take care of your body and are confident in what you do. Scrawny men do not look or really ever act confident, and the overweight men always say they're fat. You see? We are not shallow, it's just that the body you say you have is more appealing than what it used to be.

Now, if you aren't smart, I'd advise you to wisen up some. If you go around saying women are shallow, you'll get nowhere, except with those (cliched) blonde populars who call themselves human.

§God Bless§

Answer 5

ALL GIRLS ARE NOT SHALLOW!!!!!!!! No matter what these guys here say. U need to get with an intelligent mature young lady. They do exist, I will have to say a girls friends can influence her Decisions a whole LOT. Scope out her friends, are they mature? Is she a leader? A follower? I am 21 and I date ALL kinds of guys, because I feel everyone deserves a fair chance, and i know that special lady is out there for u, one that is not shallow

Answer 6

That is just like asking are all men shallow. I personally find myself attracted to a persons personality and physical appearance. Do you think you have more confidence now than before you started going to the gym, are you more outgoing? Maybe your increase in confidence is why more young ladies are interested in you. How many young ladies have you talked to that others thought were unattractive but you thought they had a good personality? Think about it.

Answer 7

Wow i resent that! I do not care about looks as much as i care about personality! Some girls yes they do look for the looks more but not all. You should find the girl who liked you all before what happened. I dunno what to tell you but no not all girls are shallow. I can tell you right now that some girls reading this will be very hurt or very angry with you. I would just say be yourself. Look for the girl who doesnt care if your good looking or not. It shouldnt matter. Another thing is guys are exactly the same. They look for the hott skinny girls with the beautiful hair and all that mambo jambo!

Answer 8

most girls r as they go 4 the looks first, but also if u have money some dont care what u look like so yes, they are shallow, but hey, not all of them are, now and then u will find a girl who can see that u look after ya self and thats what we like to see, i dont think they want a man who just dont seem to care about what he looks like or, can see that he just dont care 4 his health or anything like that, but im sure u are the same way as well as u would not go 4 a girl who is big or has bad teeth and u can see that she dont care 4 herself either am i rrrrright lol

Answer 9

yes and if they say they aren't its cause they are ugly, bitches are worse than guys, i at least know some guys that get past the fat and nasty girls because they are the ones with real personality... no to find a girl thats cute like that will never happen because they never had to develop one being good looking, u need to find a hot girl that used to be ugly, those are what we call jackpots, but the only draw back is that they are hard to get and once you got em playing them becomes harder and harder

Oh and if you girls answering this are reading... yall dont look for personality, I see it daily, my boy gets to know a girl and has a good personality and he tells me that they think of you as a good friend cause a relationship is outta the question... F'ing shalow cunts

Answer 10

We look for looks first. In dating, I look for someone who is physically attractive, because there must be some sort of attraction to begin with. Then once you date that person, you look towards their personality. If they are lame or have nothing good about them in lieu of personality, then they are most of the time not worth it. Now, when they are supposedly "worth it" with a crappy personality, I'd call that girl shallow.