not lust or obsession.. i mean long-term
2006-08-22 05:58:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love her truly n u'll find it 4 ur self
2006-08-22 06:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well iv been with my b/f 2 years almost, so i think were out of the lust / obsession phase. We just click really well together, i love everything about him and i couldnt see myself with anyone else. Theres no trick, youve just got to find the right person.
2006-08-22 13:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy and I get better with each passing day. It's easier to communicate, we don't fight but having "discussions" like mature adults, we enjoy the same foods / drinks, we enjoy the same type of nightlife, and best of all he is my bestfriend and the greatest lover (in and out of bedroom) of all time. Plus, we each take time out alone for eachother to just sit and cuddle with no noise and just connect with eachother everyday. All relationships require effort from both partners and I've got that now even though it took me 34 years to find my soulmate. lol.
2006-08-22 13:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The trick is trust and keeping things fresh and taking everything with a grain of salt
2006-08-22 13:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by chelsetoots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trick is don't spend every day together. Do different things, find new stuff to amuse and amaze your partner. Otherwise you will run out of things to talk about and new things to do. Oh and surprise them avery now and again, just for the hell of it.
2006-08-22 13:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by stevensontj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been seeing a bloke since may 26 this year. we were engaged just after a week and half of seeing each other. i have known him for four years and never really thought about him. i knew within four days that i loved him (i have been in realationships quite a few and never felt this strongly for any one before not even my sons dad) the weeks that have passed have been the best in my life i need him with me and when he is at work i miss him like crazy. he always tells me he love me and i get upset as he always says it before i can say it lol its like he knows what i want to say and says it for me. i have never wanted to marry before but next year we are marrying on my birthday i asked him and we both know its right for both us us. my son loves him as well.
2006-08-22 13:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by hkirby7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love improves with keeping. You learn more about the other person, understand what makes them tick, what process got them to what they are now and you mesh.
2006-08-22 13:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 'trick' is:
absolute, 100% honesty, unconditional love, total respect, acceptance, willing to appologize, lots of affection and frequent, soft touching (not POKING!!), genuine happiness, best FRIENDS, ABSOLUTELY NO CRITICISM or SARCASTIC JOKES!, and..........HONESTY!
there's more but this may get the ball rolling.........
2006-08-22 13:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do , the trick is you choose a woman that loves you more than you do , when you do that she'll do everything to satisfy you and then you'll start feeling better about her and your feelings will grow better
2006-08-22 13:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by spikydaisy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
looking in the mirror is the best trick for me... lol
2006-08-22 13:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suprising the significant other with material goods and cooking
2006-08-22 13:06:00 · answer #11 · answered by subway stu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋