I like this guy at work at another dept. I'm leaving my job on monday. I've known this guy couple months at work and we talk off and on..whenever we happen to run into each other..which is at least once a week. He seems to initiate all the convo and seemed to socialize with me on some personal level and I thought he might have been interested even a little. I didn't see him on my last opportunity to ask him out so I sent him an email saying something about a topic we've discussed many times and I let him know that my last day was monday and if he wanted to keep in touch.
He responded with something about the topic we discussed before...and added and I quote "Feel free to keep in touch...you know my email......" and he really did type the "...."
So what does it mean? I feel disappoiinted somehow..I thought he was somewhat interested...even a little and now...I don't know if he is...or he hasn't thought about it...I really like this guy and I'm sad I got my hopes up...
2006-08-22 05:41:38 · 7 answers · asked by Name Unknown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In some ways I was happier when I didn't know ...maybe it's still up in the air beause I didn't directly "ask" him out..but something he said regarding the topic we discussed many times before gave me a weird feeling...I need serious advice
answer here if you wanna answer or email me at sheepingly@yahoo.com
I'm really upset :(
2006-08-22 05:42:43 · update #1
Hi, I have a couple of opinions on this topic.
1. It was very rude of him to to say _______at the end of his response, so with that said, I would think he was being sarcastic and absolutely not into you. then on the other hand....?
2, you said you didn't directly ask him out, depending on if he was just being (silly), nicely put, you would know him more than I would . But we all have an instinct to see the way a person is it an extent, It won't mean he is not interested, just try to feel this person out by staying in touch. if you really like him. otherwise it is always going to be in the back of your mind, WHAT IF !!!!
End result, the ball is in your court, so you can only make the decision your self. I hope I was able to help you sort this out.
Good luck and I wish you happiness in all.
2006-08-22 06:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we mistaken a friendly gesture or action as being more than what it is. He's probably just a very friendly type guy, a people person. You may see more than that in him because of his conversations or actions towards you. Don't read too much into it. The way it sounds, if he wanted to take it further with you, I don't think he would have had any problem letting you know that (you stated that he initiates conversation). I'm sorry to tell you but, yes you got your hopes too high. Move on.
2006-08-22 05:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may be interested and isn't sure if you are interested in him.
How about emailing him again, and either ask him out, or say, "Although I'm not working there any more, it would be great to get together with you some time." Maybe suggest a low-key date, like, "How about going for coffee/lunch some time?"
Good luck!!
2006-08-22 05:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-22 05:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, like I'm gonna read all that...learn to summarize!
2006-08-22 05:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah too much to read....
2006-08-22 05:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by King Of All Kings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't get what your saying.
2006-08-22 05:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋