i saw them at work and she was just hanging all over my man and he wasn't doing anything about that and i love him with all my heart.
2006-08-22 05:40:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk up, put your arms around him and politely ask who she is and why she has her hands all over your man.
Dont say it in a mean way or loudly.
Smile the whole time.
More than likely shes gonna say oh i didnt realize he had a gf and walk away then confront your bf and ask him why he didnt tell her about you or to get off him.
2006-08-22 05:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a very open discussion with "your man" about why he would allow that. Then asked him how he would feel if he happened upon the same situation with you. Ask him how he would feel if some guy were hanging on you like that. See what his reponse is. If you are uncomfortable with what he's doing, you need to let him know that.
Your issue is obviously not with the girl because you don't know her and she doesn't know you. Is your boyfriend encouraging this person to behave in this manner? You can't be sure so the best thing to do is communicate your feelings and let him know "his behavior" or the lack of him checking that girl and telling her not to do that is unacceptable, hurtful and not appreciated by you.
2006-08-22 12:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't flip out about it otherwise you'll just come out to sound all jealous and possesive.
Just walk up the next time and introduce yourself with a great big smile, show your man how mature you are and how your secure in the knowledge that he loves you back.
Some girls just don't know how to behave around someone elses boyfriend and guys just love the attention, it's an ego boost for them and in no way reflects that he has any feelings towards this letch.... i mean this other girlx
2006-08-22 12:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly it might be nothing.She has absolutely every right to flirt him if she hasn't got a man(though the mortal side is another thing).Secondly if your man does nothing about it, on the contrary he seems to enjoy it u'd better ask him downright but in a funny way, like u tease him.Play it cool.Actually no-be cool!if he likes u trust him.If he prefers another girl u deserve better.We shouldn't be with people who make us feel insecure, but with people who love us and only us.Don't worry!:)
2006-08-22 12:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by BlondieGd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lose control and confront right away you'll seem not only jealouse of her, but less confident in yourself , his loyalty to you if he is and more so a doubt in your marriage or relationship...all or either of them are an open door for her. You are better off for now walking in and up to them and smiling as if its ok and kiss him and a hug but maybe a glare or pinch of a nail on hand to let him know your not pleased... get him alone tell him you don't appreciate it..then as he cuts her off verbally ..you can step to her alone and offer her the avenue of staying away or chatting with her further alone.
2006-08-22 14:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was me i would knock both their heads together but your at work so i have to be realistic. Do you really think its something serious whats your heart telling you?. Girl he should have more consideration for your feelings. Somethings wrong with that picture he is encouraging it. You deserve better. get him jelous and see how he reacts. If he gets jealous then you know he is really into you. If not move on.
2006-08-22 12:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by candylishus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would have went up to them calmly and asked what was the deal?! But when ur not around u cant babysit ur man, he is to be on his BEST behavior, and respect u when ur away. It is his responsiblilty to be FAITHFUL to u! Girls will flirt with ur man, touch ur man, etc, but he is the one who can control it by saying "hey I have a girlfriend,and she wouldnt appreciate u all over me". Case Closed. forget being nice to these homewreckers!!
2006-08-22 12:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,Best thing keep your cool.Walk up and hug kiss whatever u do to greet him.And then if he and she don"t Get it then maybe its time u got someone to show u Little extra attention at times and see how he response then he may see how u feel.If not then sweetie u need to move on to better people.
2006-08-22 12:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by motherof319662000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO MAN "would do anything about it"!!!!! What did you expect him to do???? Run away from her, screaming like a little girl!!! He's just enjoying the attention. Something tells me you are about to ruin it.........
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-08-22 12:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you had better get control of your heart because a man who can't check another woman's behavior is just waiting to hit that. you can't do a thing and if he doesn't mind than you are s*** out of luck.
2006-08-22 12:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋