We met and have been going on dates and talking for the last 6 weeks. He texts me constantly and I see him 1-2 times a week, individual and group activities. We hold hands and kiss a lot, he pays a lot of attention to me, but has yet to really kiss me or make any other move. I know he is a very conservative person when it comes to sex, but I am wondering if he is even interested. Last night we watched a movie, cuddled and then talked til 330 in the morning. It was refreshing but how do I know if he is going to want more. Both of us have only dated 2 people and been seriously in love with one. None of these people effect our situation and I want to know if he is going to want to be my boyfriend soon? I really like him and hope he feels the same. How do I know when he is so reserved with sexual advances?
2006-08-22 05:37:51 · 15 answers · asked by Belize 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As forward as it sounds, just let him know that you're ready to do more.
Guys are generally very nervous especially around girls they really like, so he's probably being conservative to avoid turning you off. Next time you kiss, add a little more to it. Encourage some making out by putting your hands around the back of his neck and pulling him in tight.
If he pulls away, he's just not ready for whatever reason. Odds are that he's going to follow your cue and get really turned on by it.
2006-08-22 05:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Hotstepper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He def likes you if you has been seeing you for six weeks and you have kissed and what not. He talks to you alot and pays attention to you, so he must like you. Are you saying you have tried to advance on him before? If not, you should just go down on him or something. If so, then maybe you need to get out of the relationship because you want someone who will have sex now it sounds like.
2006-08-22 12:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be paitient with him. When hes ready he will make a move. Some times good things come to those who wait. He must be wanting more then just sex...like love? So wait and see..
2006-08-22 12:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does having sex mean you are b/f and g/f ? it seems to me you are in a good place now. if and when he does make that move at least you will be ready. don't think that you have to have sex so soon or he's not interested. sounds like he respects you.
2006-08-22 12:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel that sex is the only way to show he is "into you?" No pun intended.... You should be grateful that he is respectful to you. Take your time here. Enjoy spending quality time together. When the time is right it will happen. No need to rush.......
2006-08-22 12:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU ACTUALLY THINK THAT SEXUAL ADVANCES ARE A WAY TO TELL IF A GUYS IS INTO YOU?
YOU HAVE 100% OF HIS ATTENTION ALREADY. DUH. HE'S INTO YOU....
YOU HAVE LITTLE EXPERIENCE WITH GUYS, AND YOU SEEM TO HAVE LOW SELF-ESTEEM. IF YOU THINK THAT YOU CAN USE SEX TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU, YOU'RE SADLY MISTAKEN.
MAYBE YOUR HORMONES ARE MAKNG YOU THINK ABOUT SEX, BUT SEX IS JUST SEX. IT DOES NOT MEAN LOVE. HIS ACTIONS SO FAR MEAN LOVE. MAYBE HE JUST RESPECTS YOU AND HOW OLD YOU ARE. MAYBE HE IS NOT READY TO GO THERE EITHER.
IF YOU THINK THAT SEX MEANS LOVE, YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO GO THERE....
2006-08-22 12:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is your boyfriend already. You just need to get past thinking of him as nothing more than an organ to satisfy your lust.
2006-08-22 12:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him.thats were a lot of people mess up. lack of communication.quit playing guessing games and talk.dont hint,dont beat around the bush, ASK HIM
2006-08-22 12:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by babyblues 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Directly ask him..face to face..
you'd get the answer.. if he's feeling riagt way he'd say Yes..
good luck
2006-08-22 12:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, grab his dick and see what happens
2006-08-22 12:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋