does he really wants to come back and what should i do?
2006-08-22 05:32:59 · 46 answers · asked by Lizza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he is desperate
Go back to him and have some hot wild sex!
2006-08-22 05:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I have no idea what you should do because I don't know all the details of your situation, I can tell you that he may still be in love with you. He may simply need someone to talk to and feel that your bond is still close enough that he can confide in you. He may enjoy your company.
I am still married to my husband, although, we separated in August of 2005. Due to circumstances beyond my control I had to move out of the home I was living in and am currently living with my husband. We are still best friends, and we still stick up for each other in times of need.
So, you ex may consider you to be like a best friend despite the problems you may have had in the past. The best way to find out where you stand is to discuss things with him. He should be able to provide you with the answers you seek. If he does want to be a part of your life and come back, you will have to evaluate the situation and search your heart to see if that's what you really want. Talk to him openly and never make hasty decisions that you may regret later on.
2006-08-22 05:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by xtcgurl123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he calls you quite often, he probably still likes you. The question to you is, what do YOU wan't to do? Maybe you should just go with it and see where it goes. If he asks you out for a coffee or something then take him up on it. Or maybe you could suggest the same even. If he gets all heavy and you feel freaked then, you can just put it all down to experience. on the other hand, it might just be real nice and you'll both realise what you are missing.
2006-08-22 05:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by robster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he just feels more comfortable talking to you then to anyone else. Could mean that it is what he is used to and that he hasn't broken the habit yet, or that he doesn't have anyone else to call... Maybe he just wants to keep the friendship with you close. Could be a lot of reasons...
I guess if I were you I'd come right out and ask him what his motives are behind his calls and why he keeps calling you if it is over, ask him if he'd like to try again! Then you will know how he feels and what to do from that point.
2006-08-22 05:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he ask you to borrow things like money or your car? If he does this is definitely not love. It's greed. My ex calls me only when he's in trouble financially. He constantly tells me he loves me, but I know it's just because I'm a sucker. Don't bet on his feelings yet until he comes right out and says something. DOn't get involved. He's your ex for a reason.
2006-08-22 05:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy VP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It not really about him, it about you. What do you want to do?? Do you love him and is there a chance that you both can resolve the problems that made him your ex ??
BUT- BUT remember in all this Men love to have a back-up girl in their back pocket when things don't go right in their personal lives.
SO if he want back, make him work for you because darling remember you are a prize, a jewel that should be fully appreciated for all the lovely and wonderful things that you bring to him.
2006-08-22 05:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might still care.
Or he could be ambivilent - unsure.
He could be bored or temporarily lonely.
Decide if you want an ongoing thing with him, friendship or more.
How about asking him and put him on the spot? If he's uncomfortable with that, he will probably leave you alone then. Best to know instead of wonder - that's what I think.
2006-08-22 05:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex needs to get a life, depending on who made the break up, he either made a mistake in breaking up with u or he still has feelings and wants you back. Anyway tell him to move on (depending on wether you have any feelings for him). If you still have feelings for him, let him know!!!
2006-08-22 05:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by princessboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does, i was involed with someone just like this,my ex would call me all the time and i wouldn't answer so oneday he called and i finally answer the phone and he was telling me he want me and he miss me and i was playing hard to get and he just begged to get back with me he is going to come around trust me. If he ain't want to get back with you he wouldn't be wasting his time on this and also me and my boyfriend got back that week later
2006-08-22 05:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Diamond Misses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is stuck on you, may not want to get back together, but can't let go. My guy is the same way with his ex wife. Men are selfish @ss *****. If he has another lady tell him how unfair it is to her that he constantly calls you, he can never move on if he doesnt' break the communication line.
2006-08-22 05:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by ladyjno7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just looking for some sex. Once he has it he will be off again. Do the right thing for both of you and cut the cord. No more texts, calls, emails etc and find someone better.
2006-08-22 05:42:04 · answer #11 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋