Not just on dates but i feel like people are watching me eat and i get uncomfortable. Especially on dates with a new man. (when i was dating) I can't order what i really want because i dont want him to think i am a pig, unhealthy, and i dont want him watching me eat. Plus i may have food in my teeth or on my mouth. At parties, i have to eat alone. i cant eat in front of people. Does anyone else feel this way or do i need psychological help?
2006-08-22 05:15:44 · 11 answers · asked by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was dating, I hated it when the girl would only pick at her plate and take a few bites and be done. It was a big waste of money and time. Eat the food in front of you and enjoy it, and do not be one of those people that send everything back because there is something not quite right. Just eat it and know that you're not eating the cooks snot filled loogy. NEVER SEND FOOD BACK! It makes you look like a huge pain in the as5.
2006-08-22 05:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Alan J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people mostly females are insecure about eating in public. I on the other hand got over it. I mean if the date leads to a relationship are you willing to starve for eternity. Sooner or later he is going to see the real you. Why not make it sooner. Every body has to eat it is part of being human.
2006-08-22 05:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by geni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest, don't eat everything on your plate, but do order something that you don't have to eat with your hands, such as buffallo wings or spare ribs. And NO, you don't have to eat salad just to show you're not a "pig". Eat what you want, but say 1/2 of it if it's a big plate of pasta. Good luck!
2006-08-22 05:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by babbles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never ever been this girl, and I have never had a guy say anything about me eating too much. The only time one ever said anything to me was when I didn't eat enough. My guy now likes my healthy body, he doesn't want a stick figure.
2006-08-22 05:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eating less is prob a good idea - cuase you dont want to get all full and uncomfortbale later on. stay away from smelly foods (pesto) and messy foods where you might get stuff stuck in yoru teeth. plus if your going to be drinking later on in the night you dont want to have a full a full stomach and might throwup.
2006-08-22 05:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by 10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you need help. Girl, you must be skinny as hell! People eat, thats what we do. I wouldn't care what people thought about how I eat. Most of the time (believe it or not) they're not paying you no attention anyway why?????? BECAUSE THEY'RE EATING.
2006-08-22 05:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
psychological help... jk. i think all us girls have that problem. im always worried i have sumtin in my teeth so i just go to the bathroom quick. thats all
2006-08-22 05:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by lexi g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eat what u want. be ur self. i'm indian, too, like u. don't change just for him, but don't clean out the restaurant.
2006-08-22 05:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by [brown♥eyed♥girl] 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-22 05:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel the same way don't feel bad.
2006-08-22 05:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋