to remain single for a lifetime , is it something to be scared or a blessing?
2006-08-22 05:10:15 · 15 answers · asked by jiaceyril 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To some it is a blessing and by choice, but I would never be scared of it
2006-08-22 05:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Singleness is a choice. Dont listen to those who say if ur single be afraid, be very afraid, NOT TRUE!!! There are many woman who are SOO scared to be alone they endure horrible relationships with people just to feel like their life is "VALID". The true test of life, and true LOVE is loving urself enough to say" I'm ok being single, and thats when god may bless u with a companion, or not. Just love urself. Look at the nuns, they have long lives, and I know MANY older ladies whos husbands died decades ago, and they are JUST fine, even better. Its nothing wrong with standing on ur own.
The first responder told u single people die early, blah, blah, I think the miserable people that he is talking about, are any people with stressful, dishonest, chaotic lives. A mate does not ALWAYS equal happiness. Read, "Ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives", By: Psychologist Laura Schlessinger
2006-08-22 12:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this question is different for everyone.
To pair up is human nature. However, an individual's mindset it what makes being single for life either a scary thing or a blessing. It all depends on what YOU want. To be single doesn't necessarily mean you are alone or lonely i.e. unhappy . Just like being paired up doesn't guarantee happiness.
The answer lies within you.
2006-08-22 12:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by 4feet11inchesoffun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your personality. If you are single and enjoy it, it's a blessing. If you're single and have no friends or family, and hate it then it's not a blessing. But to be single for a little while, is definitely a blessing.
2006-08-22 12:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by Supa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't thing that someone will remain single for a life time because their is a perfect someone out there for every one you just have to wait for that person to find you or for you to find them so being single is not a gift or a curse it is just a faze in our lives
2006-08-22 12:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by God Is Love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How great it makes you feel is inversely proportional to how old you are. Get hitched before you get over the hump. There is a fullness and stability that comes from permanent relationships that you just have to experience.
2006-08-22 12:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it depends o your outlook on life. If you are happy being single and you stay happy forever then it is.
2006-08-22 12:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Scared
Single people don't live as long
Single people aren't as healthy, physically or mentally
Singe aren't as happy and more likely to suffer from depression
2006-08-22 12:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even the bible says, we are better off to be single.
2006-08-23 09:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scared, especially women tend to be more grumpy and very petty.
2006-08-22 12:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by qisyia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋