I have been dating this woman for about 5 weeks. I just don't "feel" it happening with her! But breaking up is hard to do! We work together, which adds to the complications. She is super good, I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. What is a nice way to tell her without causing to much office hell?!
2006-08-22 04:58:21 · 9 answers · asked by ceebee1111 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should tell her what you just told us. Let her know the truth of how you really feel right now. You can't help that your not ready for a relationship right now. If she has respect for you then she would be able to respect your wishes. If not, she just might cause office hell, but I doubt it. Just tell her. Good Luck!
2006-08-22 05:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by dollbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to break up with the woman you have been seeing for 5 weeks then you should talk to her and tell he the reason why you don't want to be in the relationship and that your not doing to hurt her feelings is just your not ready. Since you two work at the same place then you could keep the relationship between you and her strickly friendship or just co-worker to co-worker. It is a hard thing to do but you will feel better once you do tell her.
2006-08-22 05:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my....dating a co-worker is the worse thing to do!...pls remain a gentleman at any cost. Bring a single rose and tell her in simple words that friendship is the only feeling you have at the moment. That you are not ready yet, and that she'll have you as a friend at any moment in the future, that it has nothing to do with "her", but with your present state of mind. (at least, my being a woman, this is what would less hurt me....)
2006-08-22 05:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by sourire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
out right just tell her u don't want to be in a relationship right now , say somthing like these last weeks have been great but i need to take a break we are moving too fast and i want to take my time then quit dipping ur pen in company ink
2006-08-22 05:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with her, lying is only going to make it worse.
Be straight forward and say "I'm not interested in a realtionship right now" or "I'm not feelin it" or "You're a great person, but I'm just not ready"
2006-08-22 05:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, and be respectful of her feelings. But do not drag it out it will only get worse.
2006-08-22 05:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up, whan you do , do it genlty, with consideration of her feelings and make it a friendly breakup.
2006-08-22 05:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Louisa R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be calm with her..tell her that friendship is what you want.that ur not into anything else
2006-08-22 05:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by thedumbone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too short... just blow it off. if u do some formal crap then it gets too dramatic.
2006-08-22 05:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋