My husband is his sisters idol. Whenever I am around she goes out of her way to exclude me, make me feel uncomfortable or get physically in between my husband and I. I have tried not to let it bother me and I have talked to my husband about it, and he just tells me that she is a very jealous/spoiled person. But that does not take care of the problem, should I confront her on this? Let my husband do it? Or just leave it alone?
2006-08-22 04:58:13 · 11 answers · asked by Proud mama/wife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
confront him..she might be his sister.but ur his wife
2006-08-22 05:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by thedumbone 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can u ignore someone treating you this way? I think Ur husband needs a goo kick in the pants for making excuses for her seeing and knowing the way shes treating you and making you feel. So since he doesn't want to do anything about it then I guess it's time you speak up for yourself, because this is just crazy. She knows she's making u feel this way but because NO one has got in her face she's gonna keep at it. Now u have to do what u have to do to make itself feel better and get her the hell off yoUr back.
Don't tell your hubby ur gonna do this because he may either try to stop you or tell her ahead of time.
Just wait until she does this again and let her have it, if Ur chicken hubby ( Im sorry but your hubby needs to be put in his place to for not standing up for his wife) but if he say anything to u then get in his face and time tell him u have kept hush mouth long enough and Ur not gonna stand for being treated like you have no feelings.
She's wrong and so is Ur hubby for thinking that because she's jealous or spoiled( that doesn't make it right)
SO NO DON'T LEAVE IT ALONE!!!
Get to the bottom of this and handle your business girl.
Don't back down stand your ground firm and hard.
Good Luck
2006-08-22 21:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your husband that it bothers you. So what if she's a very jealous/spoiled person? You are his wife, the first priority in life. Ask him to explain to his sister that she shouldn't be doing that. Its about time for his sister to grow up and understand that her brother is already a married man.
2006-08-22 12:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by denathene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that In my case I thought she was a physcho *****.That is an unhealthy relationship between brother and sister somehow the boundary lines got crossed if i were you i would say something to him if he didn't talk to her then i would let her know u will not tolerate her behavior.Don't leave it alone it will only get worse if you let her run over you.good luck
2006-08-22 13:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by samwise25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have your husband for the rest of your life. She will find a man, and then she won't be so needy of your husband's attentions. Just be the bigger person here and just accept her for who she is and give them space when she's around. Maybe you should invite her over so much to your house.
2006-08-22 12:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by moveplease 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take an interest in the sister. Build a relationship.
2006-08-22 12:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to ask is there some hanky panky going on here or what, I know he's your brother, but step off please miss. Give me some space with my man. Just become as bold as she is concerning any issues belonging to the two, of you. When God joined your husband and you together it didn't include her. Let her know without hesitation! Be bold as a loin please !
Gayle
Could be incest. . .
2006-08-22 12:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by gayle j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
been there done that it is your husband duty to ask his sister to treat you w/ recept or the time with him will be limited my mother in law was like that when we got married and my husband told herthat we were as one and if she couldnt love me and treat me right than he would have to limit his time with her cause he wasnt gonna let her hurt me that way i was important to him and i came ist good luck
2006-08-22 12:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey why u bother when ur husband is understnding n he understands u.Ignore ur sis in law...And do just tit for tat....u shud also do whatevr she does to make u feel uncomfortable....simple....if she behaves bad give her befitting replies ...she wud not underestimate u in future.
2006-08-22 12:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by dimpy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
intil u dint dare to take any action people wil exploit u."THE ONE AND ONLY THING WOMEN YET HAVE TO LEARN IS TO FIGHT FOR HER RIGHT". go n have it.
2006-08-22 12:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by silentlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋