I'm 21 years old and know that I am not an ugly guy as I see women checking me and been told by several girls whilst I was in a relationship that they like me. However now I am single and only really been with the one girl I am really nervous with girls and can't talk to them and have very low self asteem. How do some people have so much confidence? And girls do u prefer guys who are show offs and loud or quiet friendly guys?
2006-08-22 04:56:06 · 6 answers · asked by forshow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, this will come with practice and trial and error. what's the worse case scenario? she says no. and that would be it. if the girls show sign of interest like what you said; then you got more than 50 percent chance.
2006-08-22 05:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I for one like the nice reserved kind of men. Most women don't like a show off but they do like a man to have confidence and some kind of a back bone. Confidence is something that you have to have within yourself. Therefore you have to look within yourself and find the one thing that you do like about yourself and let it be your inspiration to gain more confidence. If women are feeling you that should be inspiration right there. You're not ugly so don't allow your nervous to get the best of you when talking to a girl. Just be yourself and say what's in your heart to say. Women like men that can be themselves around them you don't have to put on a show. You will find women that are going to like who you are as a person and you will find some that may not. But in the end just be happy that you are a living and just love yourself and who you are more and more each day. Then others can love you as well. Good Luck!!!!!
2006-08-22 12:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by liliw24 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't like loud, obnoxious show off guys. But I like guys with self esteem and self confidence. You should start by just accepting yourself and loving yourself. Corny as it sounds, you can't love another person until you love yourself. Find things and qualities that are great about you and center on them. I am sure you have something great and unique about you. Use that as your confidence. Look a girl in the eye, stand up straight and smile. Making the first move also shows confidence. You just have to not let turn-downs get to you and just know you have nothing to lose. If a girl shoots you down, move on. No loss.
2006-08-22 12:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by jeneration Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and don't be afraid of rejection, there is always a reason for it. There are all types of girls that like all types of guys. You just have to be yourself and the girl that likes that type will come around
2006-08-22 12:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stuff you pants with a sock (make sure you put the sock in the front)
2006-08-22 12:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BE YOURSELF!
2006-08-22 12:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋