Me and this boy have been friend for about a year now. We always kissed each other and felt on each other. Then we finally hit the last step, if you know what I mean. After a week went by, come to find out he has a girlfriend that he's been went for almost a month. I don't know what to do! Should I confront him about it or should I leave it alone? To me I feel like it's not my place at all to confront him. I'm not even his girl, we're just good friends. On top of that I see him all the time, when me my cousins and his friends all hang out because we are all very cool. So that makes it even more weird for me.
2006-08-22 04:29:44 · 34 answers · asked by ladydips_killacam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friends do not treat 1 another like this.
U need 2 re-think how U do feel about this Boy.
Me, I would at least expect an explanation as 2 why he didn't think mention he had a girlfriend, sooner!
Sorry Lovey but it sounds like he used U.
Friends don't do that 2 each other either.
Oh dear I feel awful 4 U, stupid boy if I got the chance I'd box his ears!
:)
2006-08-22 04:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I am so sorry! We all make mistakes, we r only human. No, u need to talk to him esp if he is like your best friend. Things will be diff now, but u have to talk about this to him or u guys will end up enemies b/c gf will find out & that will only cause even more problems. Don't feel like u can't talk to him. Friendship is so important. So, just get it over with, u will feel so much better when u say what u need to say to him. Don't be on teh offensive though or u will get no where.
2006-08-22 04:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by manders1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confront him about it just leave it be sweety and live and learn from this mistake. If he comes back again for more then you can put his *** on blast and really keep it moving. Next time don't go there with your friends sexually. Cause the after affect can be murder on you. Just stay strong you'll get through it. Good Luck !!!!!
2006-08-22 04:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you give yourself to another in the deepest sense, you must be clear in your mind about what you desire. Men are by nature highly motivated by the need to conquer or at least collect sexual experience. Woman think about sex in terms of commitment. This huge gap requires self knowledge, self restraint and the persistent attempt to communicate these feelings from a woman's point of view. Self knowledge is indispensable in sorting out life's complexities. In the future do not give yourself away until you are clear on your motivation and expectations. Cause and Effect are EVERYTHING.
2006-08-22 04:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rosie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. You made a mistake. Don't make anymore. Confronting him will tell him that you are more pressed than you should be and he will think he has a new fool to play with. Just charge it to the game and keep it moving. He's not worth it........
2006-08-22 04:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely would not sleep with him anymore. I would cut him off completely when it comes to any type of romantic relationship between the two of you. I mean, you dont want to encourage him cheating on his gf. If it is too weird for you once you cut that off, then just stay away from him. If he wants to know why, just get him alone and explain it to him...but its private...your private business and his. I wouldnt get friends involved in this one. You definitely deserve better than someone who is with someone else. Before you know it, you will find the most perfect person who will devote all of their attention to you....being that choosy raises your standards and then only the worthy guys need apply....good luck to ya!
2006-08-22 04:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by grl_addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seem your not that cool unless you do it, know what I mean, listen don't give him another thought and move on with your life. Believe me he is not worth it, if he can't even give you the time of days even if your are firiends. When you see him say hi, and go with your other friends if they are your friends and find a new way of having fun without him.
2006-08-22 04:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by Louisa R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him aside and talk to him. If you are just a sex toy to him then tell him you can only be friends. Then think if you were in a relationship with him he may do the same thing to you he has done to his girl so stay away. He has some growing up to do
2006-08-22 04:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by cowboygene2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess his man-hood over spilled on everything , this will never happen unless you opened a crack in the door for him cause you want his relation , i think he used this in a smart way
he made you think you're friends and u gave him the chance to this deep short term relation ,
confront him and ask him , what it means to him ,
sorry for being honest but it's a case sensitive and you have to deal with it carefuly
2006-08-22 04:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by spikydaisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should at least talk to him about it. find out why he is acting the way he is with you when he has a girlfriend. you need to clear the air between you so you can move on. as you are friends it should be easier to talk to him about it. find out where you stand you do not want to be used by this man.
2006-08-22 04:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by sharon h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋