2006-08-22 04:27:16 · 6 answers · asked by dusky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not sure whether IT dating is the thing to do when seeking a "life" partner. Maybe some people are lucky at that sort of thing??
As a singleton myself, I rest easy on the basis that I have great family and mates, mixtures of married and single males, females, and couples. I think if you go about life and have a nice social circle, and follow your personal interests a partner will cross your path at some point. I personally do not believe that you can contrive situations (dating agencies etc) where you can get two people together and there is this "wow" factor....it may be a temporary attraction thing but I think when looking for a long term partner, just the looks is so not enough.....having a great personality is fundamental.
I think it's better to be patient and believe you will meet the right person at the right time.
2006-08-23 08:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I'll go through the obvious first:
1. Ask your friends to set you up. Let them know when you're available and what you're looking for.
2. Check around your work place. Not necessarily in it, but maybe nearby it? The offices next door, or the place you hang out at during your lunch break.
Also, if you can just create a little time...
3. Use your minimal social time to join something, anything, and network from there. Start out friendly. If you meet a cute girl at an organization and you hook up with her and mess up (and chances are, it will mess up), that's it. But if you become friends, and get to know her friends, you've just opened up a well of opportunity.
2006-08-22 04:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it to the chance...he might be round the corner! I met my gorgeous husband on www.makefriendsonline.com
In one year we got married, bought the house and we have a baby boy...I use to laugh at people who were searching the net for their partners...but you really never now where, how and when the right person will just come along...open your eyes and be happy
2006-08-22 04:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anna N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wherever u are, try to start a conversation w/ someone u encounter. this can be a good start of a new friendship.. & who knows? ur personalities might later on "click" & both of u might find urselves compatible in many ways that could lead the 2 of u to fall for each other..
2006-08-22 04:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by vernz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you work? the workplace is always a good place to meet people, family and friends are a great way to meet people. but honestly unless you go out and meet lots of people you are narrowing your chances of finding someone thats right for you.
2006-08-22 04:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make time.
You are the boss of your own life.
2006-08-22 23:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Norman Bates 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋