Or just try and have a long distance relationship?
2006-08-22 04:18:28 · 41 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Becky, Indiana to North Carolina is NOT 1//2 way around the world. You're still in the Eastern half of the US.
Not if I had to move to ANYWHERE in the Middle East or move to a communist or a 3rd world crappy country. In fact, the ONLY other country I could live in besides the USA is Suisse (Switzerland) NO MAN is worth "selling" out for.
What do you do if the love doesn't last? You're stuck in some hell hole of a crappy country. Make sure the country is one you'll like.
2006-08-22 04:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with the long distance relationship. Then before you make the big move make sure you can set yourself up there OK (or return to home fairly easily) if things don't work out. That means before you move you should have a job waiting for you out there and a place to live at the very least. If it's a different country make sure you understand the laws, particularly the ones regarding visas and citizenship. Oh, and make sure you keep in contact with all your old friends. The last thing you want to happen is for this to fall through and not have anyone back home to support you.
2006-08-22 04:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, unfortunately I would. I moved to Sweden for a girl, we were great. Fantastic. We lived together a year at college, and were friends for more than that before, and I thought what the heck! she's back in Sweden, and she really wants me to move in with her, so I did. Life was hard, had to go to swedish classes, had to find a job, I missed the states so much, I went back for a 3 week visit and that made me see sweden with new eyes though. So I began to get comfortable, working all the time, because she studied, and.... she came home one day from London saying.. I don't think we should be together anymore.
Now she's dating the guy I used to consider my best bud. I'm not mad at him, but her I can't stand. I just don't understand why he put himself in that situation. I know he always had eyes for her. But yeah long story short... My life was good in America. It was decent here. I've never had a difficult life until I moved here. Now I feel like ****. No family, no close friends, nothing. Life sucks. BUT gotta move on! Gotta fight. sigh. my life is drained. Don't do it. This was the first time we ever really lived together and had bills and had issues, and had nothing to do, and drove each other crazy... and I loved her as much as I did the day I moved there the day she dumped me. Not saying it's gonna happen to you, but just lettin you know of what could happen.
Why don't I go back to the states? because I've been here 2 years already and I'm sick of starting over. I'm just gonna get on with ****. Sweden isn't really that bad. It's pretty good actually. Anyway, good luck. Sorry I'm not so positive now, I'm a little... hurt.
2006-08-22 04:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe i can share my experience and you may pick up something from it?
i have been in a relationship for 7 years, and a year ago we were separated by distance (just like you, literally half way around the world!) because of work. we are having a long distance relationship temporarily because we know we have something here between us that is too precious to allow geographical separation to come between us. at the same time we are trying to work out something where we can both work and live in the same country.
2006-08-22 04:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by statistics 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not move or have a long distance relationship. What if you move there and the relationship ends?What if you are subject to the laws of another country and cannot leave so easily?
2006-08-22 04:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and no. If you move to be with someone and things do not work out, you are stuck far away in the same area with someone you now want to get away from.
Long distance relationships are great Monday through Thursday but get lonely Fri, Sat and Sunday.
2006-08-22 04:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just long term relationship, and let him come visit me in U.S. for some fun. But would not move to his country and leave family. Family is sooo much more important that a peice of A S S
2006-08-22 04:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by LadyRaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just try the long ditsnce relationship at first, b/c truly I have to much where I'm at. My family friends my career, ect. things that mean way to much to me. But just a word of advice, a long distance relationship only makes four people happy!!!
Hope you got that...
2006-08-22 04:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a long distance relationships have no sense!!!! if u really feel that u are ready to move from the place where u live, if u feel that it is possible for u to leave ur parents and friends- then do it! just listen to ur soul!but dont do anything if u are not sure u really want to do it!
2006-08-22 04:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!
I would not move right now. I would try to visit.....have him visit...The thing is if you met this person over the internet you have no real proof he is who he says he is. There have been tons of "I thought he was a nice guy" girls out there who could tell you the same thing. If he loves you he will wait for you until you are comfortable. Of course it's your life and what the heart wants the heart wants! My personal feeling is that I would wait........a year!
2006-08-22 04:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by hisgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋