How do i get over some that i really love. She loves me too but she said i need to sort out my life?

Answer 1

Get ur responsibilities straight end out and in order. Women like men that know what they want and are responsible and reliable. Obviously she care about you and wants u to care about yourself and your issues as well. A woman does not want to be with a man that has nothing but caose in his life. So straight in up and go get her.

Answer 2

Well, two main things that I've seen help:
1. Get involved. Doesn't really matter what in. Preferably something you enjoy or love. The more active the better. Our minds can only really focus on one thing at a time, so the more active you are about it (mentally or physically), the less energy you will have to think about your past. Physical activities are better, as they produce hormones that disable us from worrying. Simple activity: Try jogging or jumping rope and "worrying" about something at the same time. It's really hard, if not impossible.
2. Meet LOTS of people, especially new ones. Male or female, doesn't matter, though female is better. Hang out with friends, especially those you haven't spent time with in awhile. Remind yourself that you're still a catch as a human being, as a man, and that there are still lots of people out there who care about you and wanna spend time with you and like you very much (I'm sure there's at least two people like that).

Answer 3

Why what is wrong with your life?? why do you need to change. if the girl you love is right and you need to sort your life out then do so......... prove that you do love her.
Or if you think you dont need to sort out your life than it was an excuse not to get back with you, either way change the things in your life that are really getting you down, like new job, new image, new house, area.
And if things still dont improve with your love then forget about her your heart will heal, and you will learn to love again.
what ever happens goood luck and remember things happen for a reason x

Answer 4

Whoever this girl is you must really like, I am guessing she feels as if you have things going on in your life and she can't handle it. There is no real definition for how to get over someone you are in love with only that people cope in different ways. Not every method for getting over someone is right for everyone, maybe thinking things over might help you but really it is how you wish to deal with it.

Answer 5

Perhaps you do need to sort your life out? Sounds like a good place to start!

Answer 6

If you love her very much and it takes two to tango, listen to her if she needs you to sort yourself out then do it, whatever it is, it could destroy your relationship, she will think that you dont love her enough to sacrifice something which is important to her, it brings you closer together don't be afraid, it is important to both of you and for your love, good luck

Answer 7

Find out what you really want in your life. think of where you want to be in 5 years. if she does love you she will be there when you find out what you want. if you figure out a goal you want and start working toward it that shows you are growing up and ready for a serious relationship.

Answer 8

she doesn't love you she was just trying to soften the blow. Try doing as she says and sort your life out, but just remember nobody's perfect and what does she want you to sort out? is she perfect?

Answer 9

IT DEPENDS WHAT SHE MEANS TO SORT YOUR LIFE OUT, WHATEVER THAT IS, BUT IF YOU LOVE HER YOU WILL SORT OUT YOUR LIFE SO GET ON WITH IT FOR HER SAKE AS WELL AS YOUR'S OR IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU MIGHT LOSE HER

Answer 10

If you know what she means do it if not ask her what is it you need to do. Be honest with her tell her exactly how you feel and that you want to change.