It was on sunday evening, i went to see her in her home, she told me she is feeling very week and she does not know while. she now said maybe it is because she has not eating. I now went to an e-tree to buy something to eat. She now told me that she will send me sms message that same day. Since then, I have been expecting her call or sms message for the past 2days now. just this morning by 6:35am, my phone rang and it was her sms message. Please read the sms message she sent and give me the best advice. advice from the opposite sex will be preferable(female).
its reads:
Hello, how are u? Am sorry i have not being able too call or send u sms. well i really appreciate d fact that you are carimg and loving but am already hook with someone.
2006-08-22 03:53:44 · 21 answers · asked by samuel B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uh DUH she does not want you
2006-08-22 04:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. I know you want female advice, but I've been there. Listen there is only one thing you can do, and that is to wait. This doesn't mean give up. Be there for her. Be a friend for now. Don't mention any relationship stuff. If shes asks you about the love stuff, tell her not to worry about it, (you are showing her you aren't phased by her rejection). Eventually she will break up with this other douche, and that's when you make subtle moves. Hopefully she will fall for you by then, but you have to be SUBTLE and COOL about this. It's a delicate operation my friend. You push her the wrong way or too much, and she will tell you to go away...
2006-08-22 04:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to let you down easy, by pointing out the fact that she sees you are a caring and loving person. BUT...do you see the BUT ??? she is already hooked up with someone else.
Go find someone who will love you for who and what you are! Everyone deserves to be loved. Hang in there. Someone is waiting for you!
2006-08-22 04:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Nisey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems she sees you as a friend only. The fact that she says she appreciates your kindness but she's already with someone says to me she doesn't want to be more than friends with you.
I'm sorry, I know it's hard to like someone who doesn't feel the same. You sound like a nice guy who truly cares for her. Try to find someone who cares for you back! Good luck.
2006-08-22 04:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Moxie1313 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she appreciates the effort and help you have given her but she doesn't want a relationship with you because she already has a boyfriend. She has made it plain to you so now you should leave her alone and get on with your life, find someone else to love.
2006-08-22 04:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been seeing her and it looks like you should let it go tell her you hope that she ate good and the next time she is feeling weak to call her man and not you move on she just needed something to eat so she use you she will get her day back
2006-08-22 04:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, you might love her, but she is interested in some one else, move on, life does not end here ...think about it as a good experience and think about the happy moments, who knows year down from now you sit and think of this as just infatuation and might be with some one who really is interested in YOU
2006-08-22 04:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by 1in6billion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say she doesn't want to be with you. Don't worry though because you sound like a nice guy and there a millions of girls in this world who would appreciate being taken care of.
2006-08-22 04:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm that s a tough one
well u could continue working on her but u should not have expectation
be yourself and maybe u could land her in the future
it leads me to believe her bf is not doing his job right because u r there more than him
go for it but with caution
2006-08-22 04:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably weak because she had to decide what to do and didn't want to hurt you. You just have to move on. It is her loss, find somebody who appreciates you for you.
2006-08-22 04:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD JUST SEE HER AS A FRIEND SHE SAID SHE IS ALREADY HOOK WITH SOMEONE WHICH MEANS SHE ALREADY HAS A BOYFRIEND, JUST GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE SOMEBODY WILL TURN UP FOR YOU WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT
2006-08-22 04:04:36 · answer #11 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋