So, if you can tag along here for a second:
Okay, so I like this guy. He dosen't like me back and maybe even hates me. He likes one of my best friends. She told him I liked him and lied about it. He knows I like him. Now it's really weird to even think about him let alone be near him because he and my friend like each other but I'm going crazy for him WHAT DO I DO!??!?!?!? Don't tell me to just suck it up and move on because I've already tried that and it DOES NOT work. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-22 03:47:03 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's all in the mind honey. There's nothing really you can do except to try to find things to take your mind off of it.
2006-08-22 03:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy to obsess over. Seriously, get out there and meet some new guys. Why would you even want to like a guy who doesn't even like you back, let alone like your friend and possibly hate you? I'd move on. In the meantime, really think about why you like this guy so much...is it because you want something you can't have? You like the challenge? Does he even have really good qualities about him? It's time to do some real self-assessment.
2006-08-22 03:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why this guy? He doesn’t like you. I assume that you are desirable, but you are just not working for him. What is his problem anyway? Think about it, even if you got with him, you’d be his second or third choice. That isn’t a foundation for bliss, that’s a recipe for badness.
Stop idolizing him and start looking for his faults. My guess is that you won’t have to look hard. When you see him for the worm that he is, it will make walking away that much easier.
2006-08-22 04:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello dancer141,
There are plenty of guys out there that can appreciate a girl with your passions. Why are you wasting your time with a guy that doesn't like you. I know that it doesn't sound easy, but look somewhere else.
Love can be a cruel master, so you need to watch out how you feel like this. Get back out and be seen by people. Try to meet as many guys as you can and learn their names and what they do. A guy that meets up with your rigid specifications will turn up, believe me.
Happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-08-22 04:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try harder.
Still not working; then take a break from both of them and starting doing your own things. You just need time.
2006-08-22 04:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by LifesAMystery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make with yourself busy with anything that has NOTHING to do with him, it's just a matter of time till things become clearer.
Have fun!
2006-08-22 04:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by •NaNNou• 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you cant suck it up and move on? thensit around eat bon bons allday gain 400 lbs feel sorry for yourself,be a loser,hell what do you want people to say?
2006-08-22 03:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Approach his parents. I used this method and I got a supermodel GF.
2006-08-22 03:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet some other guy
2006-08-22 04:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by Cubanita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it occurred to you that there isn't really anything you CAN do? Other than suck it up or whine, I suppose.
2006-08-22 03:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋