my gf said she doesnt have the same feelings anymore but says she still loves me as more than a friend.?

Question

well like we have been dating for like 8 months now and like she said she didnt have the same feelings but she said she loved me but it wasnt as a friend it was more than just a friends love. what does this mean for us? do we still have a shot? i mean i love her soo much with all my heart and soul we are even engaged. so like im lost can u guys help me.

Answer 1

there are lots of reasons she might being feeling this way.. i know when i got engaged after 7months of knowing someone i told him the same thing. I didn't tell him that to hurt him i told him that because that is how i felt, there was so much going on, it didn't mean that i loved him any less i just simply meant i needed some time to figure out what i needed and wanted out of life and in the end we got married a year later and September will be our one year Anniversary.. .things will work when you least expect them to.

Answer 2

I wouldn't know how to answer this question because your grammer is shot to hell, but I'll do my best:

Dating 4 8 months, but she still want you as a friend "on the side"? That means you a peice of *ss till she can find something better. Make the most of it and move on. You press on something that'll never happen, your minced meat buddy.

OR

Dating 4 8 months and her feelings are stronger for you than ever, but you don't have the same feelings for her? And want her around for a peice of *ss? Do what you want but it won't last.

OR

Dating 4 8 months and the only relevance you have in er life is for *ss but still want a relationship with her? Don't be stupid. Not that many guys have that kind of opportunity. I undertsand how you feel. I blew that chance once before. Don't blow it. This is the best you'll get out of ANY kind of relationship with a girl who's rejected you, but still want you till toos her up in the air.

Answer 3

Relationships never stay the same, as they were in the very beginning, when it was new.
She is not saying that, she only sees you as a friend, so maybe you need to take some pressure off of her. Concentrate on the fun that you have together, the engagemnt after only 8 months may be scaring her.
Try to focus on the spicyness between you guyss, charm her ,remind her why your a great catch.
Then things may work themselves out.

Answer 4

enable her stew for slightly, you stick to tension and she or he gets pushed away, enable her think of you would be pleased with it by ability of only performing like it fairly is not any huge deal and charm of ignoring her, that's your suited shot. (and a stable technique that I used is that via fact which you refuse to speak to her, while you're making eye touch, only shake your head slightly and look away. Doing that makes an more suitable result than something you may say.)

Answer 5

Hello My friend,

If you really want to find out, what it is, leave her alone, and trust me if this love is like more than friends love, she will come back to you, and when i ask you to leave her alone, means YOU LEAVE HER ALONE....no communications, no emails, no phone ....this way you will know if she is really interested in you, forget love, try to find out if she is interested in you, cause there is no love if there is no interest, and to find out you have to leave her alone for a while, i know this sounds hard and tough.

And pay attention to her responses not her actions, cause if she is not interested in you she will not express it directly to you and keep you in the loop and make you loose you confidence. Reason i am asking you to stay away for a while is to make you gain your confidence so that you can move on. She will see your confidence and migth increase her attention and interest in you

Answer 6

if you are engaged she might just be getting cold feet. or it could be that you guys are getting into a rut and she looking to spice things up a bit. try doing something unexpected, a romantic dinner, flowers. or sex in a public place (its very exciting)

Answer 7

Follow your heart. Take chances and if it works out thats terrific.

Answer 8

She does care for you, she's just not "in love" with you anymore. And she's afraid of just letting go of you completely. But don't let her string you along. Just let go.

Answer 9

You're not gonna wanna hear this but it sounds simple enough to me: She cares for you, but she's no longer attracted to you. Best to let go.

Answer 10

Hm maybe it's brotherly love instead of more-than-a-friend love.