Should i stay or should i go??

Question

I want to finish it with my b/f. The reasons being is i dont feel like he's interested anymore... dont ask why... just feels like now he's got me he doesnt care. we only see each other about three times a week but only once when were completly alone. i know if i finish it ill be upset, we have a great time when were together but im just so confussed. what would you do?

Answer 1

talk it over with him, but don't expect honesty. be strong & prepared to move on. sometimes when you move on, they see the light and come running back. 3 times a week is alot to see someone, i think, so maybe he's bored. do different things with other people - keep him guessing. don't rely on him to make a life for you.

Answer 2

Sit him down and talk to him about how you feel. Be honest and everything will be okay. Ask him to be open too and discuss on where your relationship is going and if everything is fine. If there are problems that both of you admit to. Don't go pointing fingers, rather look at possible solutions together on how to make things right. The best advice that I can give, which is priceless at the wonders that it can do. Communication and trust and you are on your way to live happily ever after. Best of luck amigo

Answer 3

depends how long you've been together. if it's two year or more then you need to have a chat about taking your relationship further otherwise you may be pushing too hard because you have a hidden agenda. what do you want out of a relationship and is this the guy to make a future with. don't waste his time if you don't think you have a future but i think you need to give it more time and learn to express your feelings to him. maybe he's just settled and trusts you and it comes over like taking you for granted. men do like to hunt so give him a chance to hunt you.

Answer 4

What do you want? Do you want to be young free and single or do you just want him to change his behaviour towards you?

If the latter then you need to talk to him, tell him you feel like ending it because you don't feel he is that interested in you. Maybe he wants to spend more time with you but thinks you are having a great time without him.

Answer 5

you should talk to him and tell him how you are feeling before you finish it with him. he probably doesn't realise that he isn't paying you enough attention. give him an ultimatum if you want him. but if you just don't wanna be with him anymore finish with him and move on sounds like you're only 50/50 about this guy anyway get one that knocks your socks off.

Answer 6

if you feel like hes not interested or has changed maybe its time to end it?also 3 times a week! you dont think thats enough dont you have your own life too i see my boyfriend 2-3 times a week and that for me is more than enough

Answer 7

my advice buy this book :

"He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys"

by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

Answer 8

there is a book written by sex in the city producers called "he just isnt that into you" it helped me and i made a good decision and found someone who likes my company and we even live together now and things are great i havent been happier i hope the same for you you deserve true love

Answer 9

HAVE YOU TRIED TELLING HIM HOW YOU FEEL, PRAPS HE'SE NOT AWARE, BUT IF YOU DO FINISH IT,YOU WILL GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON YOU HAVE TO THINK ABOUT YOUR QUALITY OF LIFE, OR MAYBE JUST SUGGEST A BREAK FOR A FEW WEEKS AND THEN SEE HOW YOU FEEL

Answer 10

If you have to start asking yourself what to do because you are unhappy with something. First... talk to him about it. If he doesnt want to do anything about it. Then leave. You will be much happier elsewhere.