and i dont like to give blow jobs untill i really feel comfortable with someone. He has told m its rudefor a woman not to give a man a bj durin sex is this true. Do most men find it insulting
2006-08-22 03:22:43 · 9 answers · asked by rebecca m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is nothing rude in it.. its entirely your choice.. he's just trying to force u into it by blaming u...
2006-08-22 03:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this guy to go to the moon and never come back. Obviously he does not respect you becuase then he would not have said such a thing or he is just a total idiot. It's not true and men don't find it insulting. If he was anything of a man then he would of respected your decision and not made you feel like an idiot. So forget about this guy and find someone that will love you for you.
2006-08-22 10:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, haveing sex is a very intimate thing, you should only do what feels natural.
If you are being asked to do something that you dont feel right about or are uncomfortable with dont do it.
your partner should be happy with any level of intimacy that you feel comfortable with, if you arent comfortable with Bj's you shouldnt feel
that you are "required" to do it.
it is NOT insulting to not receive a Bj, your partner should feel privlaged to have the level if intimacy to be that close with you in the first place. and if he isnt ok with makeing you feel like the way you express yourself is right, maybe he isnt ready for the true intimacy that you obviously need from him. find someone who
can make your needs as important as his own who will be ok with whatever You are ready for and not pressure you to do something you are not comfortable with.
2006-08-22 10:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Chico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I find that degrading in the first place as a woman myself. Second of all no offence your boyfriend sounds like a user. What he said is most definetly NOT TRUE!
2006-08-22 10:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a gift. You are getting used. No one should expect anything from anyone. Advice? Dump him, and never do anything you are not comfortable with. When the neat guy comes around, you'll want to do everthing, including standing on your head, if it will please him. Obviously, this one regards you as a "boinking partner".
2006-08-22 10:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is saying all that he is just using you. It's rude for him to want you to do something you are not comfortable with.
2006-08-22 10:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is not true..i can't believe you would listen to some crap like that...does he go down on you? if the answer is no then why should you go down on him? you can call your shots too ya know
2006-08-22 10:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I am insulted if she doesn't swallow
*GULP!*
2006-08-22 10:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him pronto!!
2006-08-22 10:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋