He could make you laugh and so happy that you gained weight and couldnt cope without him. Could you then dump him because you suddenly became bored?
2006-08-22 02:57:54 · 25 answers · asked by Darren 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No! Don't worry, she'll want you back before too long...
2006-08-22 03:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by anchan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude she sounds like a complete waste of time and a user to me if she is willing to dump you, you sound like a good guy.
If she is willing to take so much but give so little in return she must be a very lonely person who does not have the guts to make someone else happy.
She will probably realise one day that no one is perfect but by then it will be too late and everyone she has ever messed around will have moved on and be happy.
Let her go and in years to come you can be the one who can look back and know you treated her the best you could while she will probably be stuck in a marriage to waster she thought was the one.
2006-08-22 03:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate, if you were going out with a girl that you were bored with .. would her buying you presents make a difference?
Respect is an excellent thing to have and presents are nice but at the end of the day if your partner doesnt 'do it for you' then you need to move on.
I know that sounds harsh but you wouldnt want a girl to be with you because you are 'nice' .. you want her to be with you because she doesnt want anyone else in the world.
life sucks sometimes but thats the way it is and I think deep down you know that.
Gaining weight and not being able to cope without you .. they arent good things .. becoming dependant on someone is a scary thing for any girl ... its nice to know you CAN depend on someone .. not so much fun to know you HAVE to...
I would suggest you talk things through so you understand the situation more as it seems to me like you dont have the full picture yet.
Good luck mate, hope it goes well.
2006-08-22 03:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guessing by your name you are the guy who took flowers to his girlfriend and made her laugh etc. But you are only giving one side of the story aren't you? There are any number of reasons why people decide they don't want to be with a person and what sounds wonderful to one will sound awful to another. I can live without flowers but I will never again date a man who can't/won't dance or who hates going to the theatre.
2006-08-22 03:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are capable of anything mate.
You basically have two options. The first one is the treat-em-mean (which is proven to work with some), but if you're looking for true love, you just need to persevere and find a girl who'll appreciate what you have to offer.
I was hopeless with women, but I met my wife and found that she appreciates me and vice versa.
Good luck.
2006-08-22 03:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by le_coupe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, mybe their are other things at issue here. Maybe she just figured out you weren't the one. Maybe she dumped you rather than cheating on you. Maybe she just needed something else you couldn't give her.
I would say move on dude. Don't rehash or become bitter. She didn't deserve you, now find someone who does!
Good luck!
2006-08-22 03:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by **Shannen** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd go to gym loose the weight. then try n spice things up abit. dont fall in to a rut. have fun go out do stuff. with b/f or your mates. change some things. do things that you used todo but dotn n e more. if you still bored then its not working but i sounds like you got a good man. they are hard to find.
2006-08-22 03:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by jaynieleigh22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to dump him. He is a rarity! If he's that into you, tell him you're bored and he will probably think of lots of things to do together.
He sounds like an angel!!!!
2006-08-22 03:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But I could have all these things except I didn't love him, so, I would have to fair to him and tell him my true feelings before I got in any deeper and was taking an unfair advantage of his good nature. Bless him!
2006-08-22 03:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had a boyfriend that bought me flowers everytime he got paid, I'd think... "hey, why's this guy buying me flowers" and then i'd be like "why the hell have I got a boyfriend... I'm not gay!"
2006-08-22 03:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by Johny0555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yourse so happy you shouldnt want to dump him
hes going out of his way to try and make you happy
the least you can do is try and put a bit of effort into yourself or is it all take take take
2006-08-22 03:21:20 · answer #11 · answered by ward1703 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋