well as i was talking bout b/f(sex) i have had 2 kids one i had a c-section with, the other normal do u think that might be why i dont enjoy sex? see i want to be able to enjoy it. or maybe its b/c i dont know to 2 have sex really yes i know ur prob thinking u have had 2 kids and u dont know how to have sex. please dont make rude comments it is a problem for me and i want to fix it. some one please help im me or something please
2006-08-22 02:52:47 · 7 answers · asked by mshg24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How you had your children has no bearing on whether or not you enjoy sex.
And the fact that you've had children means you're doing it right, so it isn't a question of not knowing how. Maybe you just always imagined there'd be more to it? You might not be enjoying it because you're expecting too much or to orgasm (which not all women do), or you have some religious/moral issues with it which are interfering in your enjoyment. Try to find the root cause for your feeling this way, either in books or counseling.
In the meantime, just relax and be confident. Try new positions. Think, 'I am relaxed, it's only sex, and I'm damned good at it' :)
Have fun!
2006-08-22 03:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a friend to which I am the godfather to her twins she said she had this problem as well after delivering them naturally also. Sex did not seem enjoyable to her anymore due to loss of sensation. There are steps you can take to fix this and there are several doctors that specialize in correcting this minor problem. As far as the not knowing how to have sex stuff goes the best route I can tell you to take is practice new things with your b/f try a different position and tell him it is to learn to please him better so he will be more encouraged to help you learn instead of making you feeling low about not knowing how to. Try exciting things try new ways to enjoy foreplay hell try roleplaying even leave no corner unchecked when it comes to wanting to spice up your lovelife a little. Be open grab a sex book at a store and make a list of various things you would like to try and show it to him so you both can come up with things you agree upon it may just help make sex enjoyable again as well. Take care.
2006-08-22 03:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok there are alot of things that you didn't cover here. I am not understanding about you not knowing how to have sex,, do you mean you don't know how to make it enjoyable to you,, or are you stuck just doing it one way and have fear that it's getting boring for him?
my advice is there are alot of books out there to help ,, you can try to watch porn to see what they do,, ( I know it sounds gross but there are some softer porn that isn't that bad) umm just speaking honestly with your mate.
Good luck
2006-08-22 03:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by B V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your Doctor and have a talk with him it might be something serious but you have to make up your mind and want to be pleasure think about how it is and what you want out of it if that doesn't work then go see a doc
2006-08-22 03:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tubal ligation.
2006-08-22 02:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me i know alot about that
2006-08-22 02:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by silkydreamgirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some medicines which arouse sexual emotions
2006-08-22 03:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by sanju b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋