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Question

if you were with someone and you loved each other but he still gets text messages from his ex in florida would you be worried?

Answer 1

That all depends on what kinda of texts messages he is getting now wouldn't it. He is going to have friends that are girls dear ladies and some he may have a very good bond with. If you feel the messages are along the lines that they interfere with your realtionshiop then tell him you do not appreciate that this girl is texting him in such a manner. If it is just friendly how are you doings and the likes then let him have his friends and do not worry. Women, ladies need to understand that if he loves you nothing will change that not a text or a phone call...leave your jealousy aside or you may find yourselves alone in the end.

Answer 2

The ex lives in Florida. Unless he goes on some trip by himself I don't think you have too much to worry about.

Answer 3

I would be worried about it but sometimes you can't control things like that because BOYS WILL BE BOYS! I would tell him to tell her to stop sending him txts. But, you have to let him have some room. You can't go around in your relationship being a control freak, I mean I would be worried about it but you can't tell your boyfriend do this, do that. It'll never work, believe me I know. You should text the girl back and tell her that you would appreciate it if she didn't text your man. Make sure that you handle it in a mature way and not a dramatic one, because YOU DON'T NEED DRAMA! Try to let him handle it on his on and if she still does handle it by yourself.

Answer 4

If he knows it bothers you and doesn't put a stop to it, he is not showing much consideration for your feelings. He should respect you more than that. Would he be upset if this were you and your ex texting? That girl is an ex for a reason, he should stop if he knows it bothers you.

Answer 5

I think you should reply to the text messages and see what kind of a response you get from your BF... That should let you know exactly where you stand in the relationship...

Answer 6

maybe a little, even if my bf would say "there's nothing wrong receiving messages from her, we're just friends.. blah.. blah.." if you trust your bf, don't worry especially if you don't see him doing unneccessary things or weird actions. if you're open with that then don't worry, but if it bothers you tell him straight, talk to him nicely in that way he will understand you why.

try tell your guy to introduce you to his ex (only if that's fine with you). i mean there's nothing wrong finding out who's your bf's ex. in that way, you can say he's not doing anything wrong behind your back. he will be open, and wouldn't keep a secret.

Answer 7

does he text his ex back? did he move away by choice? as long as he does nt go visiting her any time soon i say not to worry. just try telling him how you feel without putting him in a corner.

Answer 8

No, you should be able to trust him.
If he breaks your trust.. he wasn't worth your love in the first place.. and is ex is his ex for a reason.. My ex-boyfriend is my best friend and he always will be...if your boyfriend and his ex are friends.. don't try to interfere.....he won't thank you for doing so.. and you don't want to become his next ex, now do you? ;-)

Answer 9

yes and no, I know alot of friends who have stayed in contact with there ex over the years, all you can do is ask, if there is anything behind it, and if he says no we are just talking than thats all you can do. You have to learn to trust him, its all you have to go by, just talk to him about it, tell him am concerened and scared that you are going to go back with her, and see what he says from there, and then you use your own judgement about it

Answer 10

yes i would be worried
i would sit and talk to him about it if he then gets the text then u love him more then he loves u
good luck