but how do i get him to open up to me more?He's 18 n i'm 15...i've been in two relationships b4 but they weren't shyguys...i'm not exactly sure what i should say or do bcuz i don't want him to feel like i'm rushing into a relationship with him...or do u think that matters at this point since we both like e/other anyway? i wrote him a poem,(cuz i write those alot anyway)kinda a light love poem,it dosn't sound really obsessize er anything but it's still a love poem...should i send it to him?or is that the wrong approach? plz help cuz i'm not used to shyer guys,lol..n i don't wanna lose this guy on account of me saying somthign stupid,he's a really awsome guy
2006-08-22 02:41:53 · 9 answers · asked by Albee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're Jailbait!!!!
2006-08-22 02:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by jb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love poem may be over the top a little. Keep talking to him about anything, the more he gets to know you the more he will open up. Take your time with this thing, you are both still young. Enjoy just being friends and if it is meant to be it will be.
2006-08-22 02:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh that is hard!but really u should be thinking about the age in first place!cos law will really bust on his head if he carried on with ya and u had love or anything!so friends is all what u two neeeeed and always try to think more that friendship after a couple of years will get u closer and that may be in the future u'll go out when u be in legal age,so don't send poems of love or anything u just lok around ur age girl and enjoy ur life don't push it so hard on urself so hope that i helped u a little with ur problem:).
2006-08-22 02:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by joe m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u try to ask him out to dinner and just spend time talking to him and get to know him better. I am sure by then he wont be shy with you as much. Sure, just send him that poem, tell him i wrote this, and ask him what he thinks of the poem. Have a conversation with him. Talk alot and get to know each other better. This way, he will be open with you and hope he wont be shy anymore. Good luck.
2006-08-22 02:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be careful with this guy...he could get into trouble being with you because your only 15 and he's 18. I would stop sending him the poems. If he's shy don't try to get him to open up...he'll do that in his own time. He might just realize that the age difference is too much and he's waiting for you to get older....good luck
2006-08-22 02:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's 18 and your 15. maybe he's being shy to avoid getting in trouble with the law. wait a few years and see if feeling change. I'm betting by then you both will have moved on to new people.
2006-08-22 02:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell hem if you think hes awsome wants he sees you opening up he may open up.
Hope I could help
2006-08-22 02:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by Chelsea R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The shy guys are the ones you go for honey. They do what ever you tell them and rarely argue. Those are the ones who are not afraid of commiting.
2006-08-22 02:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him or asking to like go to the movies but like go with a bunch of people and show that you like him and want to be with him but not making it awkward. Am I making sence?
2006-08-22 02:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by Claire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋