giving and receiving oral sex but since he said that I am to consious to go down on him because I think well if he don't enjoy it then that will just make me feel bad if I do it and he just lies there not really enjoying it. What should I do should i just give it him anyway in the hope that he actually likes it or just wait for him to ask me to go down on him if he ever does?
2006-08-22 02:35:13 · 15 answers · asked by sultrysagittarius 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you can be doing it properly.
Try "Deep Throat"
2006-08-22 02:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had the same issue with my wife and it had way more to do with my hang ups then her technique. I was not comfortable enough to tell her what to do. “Use your hand more”, “Harder” etc. I just laid there and never relaxed enough to just enjoy it. You will need to help him get over his anxiety. Tell him that there is nothing he could ask you to do in bed that will make you upset. He needs to know that you might not agree to do something you don’t want to do but that you will not be hurt/upset if he offers you advice on how to pleasure him better/more. The sooner he opens up the better off the both of you will be and the better sex you will have. Here was a great article on yahoo about opening up
http://health.yahoo.com/topic/relationships/overview/article/pt/Psychology_Today_articles_pto-19940701-000026;_ylt=AjHnlrkG0u6YVshFlJtV9g1at8UF
2006-08-22 02:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by Steven H 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say it but you must be doing something wrong and I'm not surprised your self conscious about it now, maybe he told you this so you could talk about it, why don't you ask him how he would like you to give it to him at least with asking the question you should both go on to enjoy it more. Good luck
2006-08-22 02:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by heavensjewel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any idea how many women would be jealous of you with a man who doesn't want oral sex??!! If he doesn't like it then he doesn't like it hunny!! Let him enjoy giving it to you and either wait for him to ask for it or if you really feel like it I'm sure he won't mind every now and again!! Having said that - are you sure you're doing it right coz I've never met a man who doesn't enjoy a blw-job?! Sumfin you doin ain't right!!
2006-08-22 02:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by ellyfantastic 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry i do no longer understand any guy who hates a BJ! My only wager is that your skills are not that stable, he only can no longer climax via oral (can ensue), or he would opt for you to do greater to him to get him off yet is embarrased reason he could be too kinky (ie finger his butt or suck on his sack). Your suited guess is to easily consult with him and ask him why yet promise him despite he says u won't get mad. The final situation is that he grow to be molested as a new child and a few one gave him a bj wherein he did no longer choose interior the 1st place! so.. communique is the substantial!
2016-11-05 09:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay this isn't my usual advice but your gonna half to watch a porno to get the idea of how to do it properly....we all have to learn and it comes down to practice.
Have fun with it and get your boyfrined to tell you when it's good and when it's not, make it like a lesson so that once class is out you'll be an expert and your b/f will reep the rewards.
2006-08-25 05:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what makes oral sex good for him and try it. Then he'd probably enjoy it more, see how he wants it done.
2006-08-22 02:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No point in doing it if it does nothing for him. Maybe you need to learn some new techniques or ask him what would make it more enjoyable to him.
2006-08-22 02:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by Coco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he enjoys giving better than receiving, let him keep giving and giving and you lay back and enjoy.
2006-08-22 02:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont do, pick a anohter guy for oral sex & give hiom ur everything, got fucked
2006-08-22 02:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by sanju b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might ask why he doesn't like it. personally, i like the sensations but always hold back from climax. the feelings are nice but not as good as intercourse.
2006-08-22 02:46:12 · answer #11 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋