so, i've been spotting this guy ages ago, and when one night i went out with my best friend, we spotted him and started chatting. she later found out that his cousin was her current boyfriend, that cheated on her. this guy, asked her out, and even though she doesnt really like him, and she is in a situation with another guy she still went out with him. he really likes her, but i like him and she doesnt like him. I've tried so much not to be a jelous friend, and i've even told her that he rocks and she should date him if he really likes her. but i like him too much, his smile practically makes me weak at the knees, what should i do? ps: he is nuts about her
2006-08-22 02:22:24 · 13 answers · asked by vallyazz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get ur own boyfriend!! U know ur wrong. I think this is a test of ur friendship, and if u pursue this, the consequences will not even be worth the payback. I think u see ur friend in a relationship, and u want a relationship like that, but its not ur turn yet. Be happy for ur friend, I know its hard, u deserve love too. I'm going through something similiar, my bestfriend is married, my other friends have boyfriends, or fiances, and I'm single, and it can be uncomfortable. I suggest u embrace being single, congragulate ur friend, and enjoy life as it is, Karma will reward in the end
2006-08-22 02:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not married, this is the "getting to know you stage" so stay back, just continue to show that you are a good person. If it does not work out with them, wait some time then get to know him in a more romantic way. He will respect you.
Also, if he does cheat on his girlfriend w/you, you will Never trust him because you will know that he is capable of leaving you...
There is still a chance for you and him, he is not engaged or married to her.
2006-08-22 02:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by cafferouge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of direction no longer. I even have been interior a similar sitituation for over 10 years! and that i'm no longer with him now. i admire him greater beneficial than the different guy that I even have been with.it rather is to no longer previous via be freinds lower back in case you the two can in basic terms be pals until eventually you like to waste a lot of it slow on b.s. And in basic terms keep in mind you broke up for a reason in basic terms keep in mind that.
2016-09-29 13:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow a regular old case of the Twelth Night here...well honestly life is too short not to make a move. You gotta tell your friend to stop toying with this guy and then make your attempt. Better to try then to not know at all.
2006-08-22 02:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone and let them decide what to do with them dont try to brake them up u will lose her as a friend and he will know it was you and then you will lose him let them split up and you can be there for him because it sounds like it will be her doing the dumping and then you can start being a closer friend with him but u dont want to lose them both ok good luck and i hope it turns out ok
2006-08-22 02:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is nuts about her so he won't give you any lift. Better wait and see maybe their friendship will end and then you can hook him or go look for someone else- there is no shortage of good boys.
2006-08-22 02:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Olive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away from the whole situtation. don't get involved. you're friend is wrong by dating him just to date him but the fact is he's crazy about her anyways. you don't need that much drama so just find yourself someone better
2006-08-22 02:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know! but theres not much you can do if he's nutts about her ! if she dont really like him, and she dumps him, then thats probably the only way you'll get him, he will just fall back on you! do you really want to be used and compared?????
2006-08-22 02:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away it will ruin your friendship trust me...just wait and see if they break up and if you still have the same feelings for him talk to her about it first
2006-08-22 02:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling her a friend because you are NO friend to her.
2006-08-22 02:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋