She said that she doesnt think we should go out because i dont devote all my attention to her cuz i dont give up my life just to give her a phone call...she said she wants me to always call no matter what im doing even on vacation...so then after that she is like do u still want to go out....in my head im like wtf and say yes for some reason....now idk if i love her or not anymore...i loved her so much yesterday and wouldve said yes if someone asked me if i love her more than anything....but now i dont know what to do...I love her but i dont...im so confused. should i break up with her or not???
2006-08-22 02:08:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take some time alone and think about it. how much do you really love her? what do you love about her and what do you hate about her? weight the difference. then make your decision.
2006-08-22 02:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She struck a nerve that is making you confused about your feeling of this person, what I think this really is, a mis-communication...in her efforts to make a point perfectly clear, in essence don't take her for granted, she words it in a unrealistic fashion, call me no matter where you are, when it is or what your doing...which under any circumstance is ridiculous and unrealistic, so don't fault her character...try and understand this over emotional circumstance put her in un familiar territory and she chose the wrong things to say to convey her feelings to you...if this is the worse your relationship has gotten, don't sweat this small stuff...she didn't mean to offend you in the way it did.
2006-08-22 02:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is not something she or you can play around with. She cant just dump you, then 5 seconds later wants you back. She isnt taking this relationship seriously. If you love her, talk to her and ask her how she feel about this relationship. Discuss with her and if she loves you, tell her to take things seriously. Good luck.
2006-08-22 02:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's totally up to you but it sounds like the girl is high maintenance.....you shouldn't have to give up your life to be with her. You should do your own thing and she should be doing hers. You don't have to be attached at the hip to be bf/gf. Tell her to grow up!
2006-08-22 02:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by Smiles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might have been confused maybe by watching too much soaps. that might have made her 'realize' that you don pay much attention to her.or shes just being immature.
2006-08-22 02:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have to devote ALL of your attention to her, ask her why this sudden change, why did she leave you and then suddenly come back?
2006-08-22 02:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds immature. I dated a girl like that....she still hasent grown up.
2006-08-22 02:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by john 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was nervous and didn't know what to do, i would give her another chance. seriously. she must be shy or just confussed.
2006-08-22 02:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if the situation is stressing you out or not
it depends
2006-08-22 02:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by spongebrat_sexychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋