The mother is living with new boyfriend & has moved takeing children with her, refuseing to allow the father to have the current address, she personally told the father this & her lawyer then phoned to say he had no right to the address. Also they have dictated that the pick up point is changed even tho the court said that it had to be at a mutually agreed pick uyp point
2006-08-22 02:06:44 · 31 answers · asked by Liz B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2006-08-22 02:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to contact your lawyer right away and get a court date. Mom does not have to give her new address but the pick up point cannot be changed with out both parties consent. It is not kidnapping, it is a power play. If you have split custody then you can do the same thing to her.
Tell the father to get a lawyer right now and take the mother to court because unless she has a very good reason for her actions, it could be held against her and it could give him the upper hand in any proceedings.
2006-08-22 02:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by nana4dakids 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The father needs to take the mother back to court. He can file a petition saying that she is violating the court order because the pick up point is not agreed to. Also, the court might make her give the father the address. What if something happens to the children? This mother is being selfish and putting herself before her children! Good Luck!
2006-08-22 02:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The father may have 'rights' but that does not include the right to an address....if the pick-up point is being changed, then I'd advise he take legal advice and go back to court. The test in the court is reasonableness and whats right for the kids - not the parents!
Are CAFCASS involved? They can help too, I'm presuming this is a UK case
2006-08-22 02:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeerrrrrmmmm this sounds very iffy to me...having battled courts and X parents over my foster children I can quite understand both parties here. BUT if he has a court order allowing visits from a pick up point even if it does change (maybe it was done for convenience on both sides ) THEN really WHY is he bothered about the address I ask ???? if there are issues between him, his X & the new boyfriend THEN I suspect that is the reason WHY she is witholding her address to aleviate any possible drama's in front of the children or otherwise....perhaps she suspects he will keep turning up on her doorstep do you think ???? But there again it could just be plain old SPITE...He needs to speak to his solicitor again really.
2006-08-22 03:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Denise W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is joint custody, by law, she has to notify the courts and ex to the address change and anything thats might affect the visitation within 30 days of doing so, Does she have reason to keep him in the dark? If not, and she is just being a bit** as so many women can be in this situation. Take her a** back to court. If the shoe were on the other foot she wouldn't hesitate to drag him over the coals. She's being spiteful because she can and he needs to take a stand. It's not easy but if she is in the wrong, sock it to her. If he is a good dad and is not a threat to the children, he should not be denied access especially if she has it set up where he is paying support on them. I DESPISE women like this, only because I know too many of them.
2006-08-22 02:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by MrsPTB4Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't kidnapping. The mother/lawyer is right. The father has no right to know the new address. As far as the pickup point goes, if he goes to pick them up then it's basically mutually agreed upon. He can't do anything but take it like the little ***** he is.
2006-08-22 02:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The father must file a motion with the court and request a hearing in this matter to rectify the situation. In most states, filing a motion on an existing case is free of charge. The forms for taking these actions are available in your local law library. If you cannot do this yourself, find an attorney or a paralegal to assist.
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2015-02-03 14:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what jurisdiction you are talking about, but if the father has custodial rights, then in any jurisdiction, this could be considered kidnapping. The father needs to get a lawyer on this immediately and the authorities need to be involved. The safety of the children has to be paramount.
2006-08-22 02:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by desperatehw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think they can do this as it breaks the origional agreement made thrugh the court.
Im not too sure if it would be classed as kidnap as the mother has residential custody, but im sure she would be guilty of breaking the rules set by the judge.
Seek legal advice *** fast as you can, and get her back in court asap.
I very much doubt that she does have to give her address, but changing official agreements will be frowned upon.
Good luck.
2006-08-22 02:21:18 · answer #11 · answered by doodlepol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋