i have been with this girl for a while, and it feels more and more that i am puttin in like a 110% and she is like couldnt care less.
Is this the time to cut my losses or try a new tactic?
2006-08-22 02:05:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't give up yet.. i'd do the following (in order of preference)
1) talk to her.. and explain how you feel.. see what she has to say.. discussin is the best way to solving problems
2) cut down on how much you do for her, see whether she notices....
if nothing makes a difference, then let it go...
but i would say... love is a job. you gotta keep workin at it 24/7 - nothing's perfect.. it's about as good as you make it!
2006-08-22 02:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like to me that she isn't in a serious relationship with u. Sounds like she is just with u until she finds something better or u r too nice & u r her doormat. Everyone deserves their equal. Obviously she is not, or she would be putting as much effort into this relationship as u say u are. So, I would first sit down & have a nice little chat with her & explain to her how u r feeling . U will feel so much better. If there is no progress made, it is time for u to move on, ok?
2006-08-22 02:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by manders1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what does she want out of life? If it's materialistic items and not pursuing her education or getting a good job, or even spending her life with you, find a new tactic.
2006-08-22 02:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by MiamiChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was with this girl for 2 years and it was like that. now were broke up and i got burned because of it. Id talk to her and if nothing changes end it, or you will get hurt much worse in the end, your choice
2006-08-22 02:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by john 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One can only put their all into the relationship and if their partner does not appear to be as giving then accept what it is or move on.
2006-08-22 02:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to cut your losses. Your investment is yielding a negative zero.
2006-08-22 02:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her first, then if things don't change then find a new girl who'll appreciate your efforts.
2006-08-22 02:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it first, if she refuses to give more cut your losses. she may not realize that shes not giving as much or not realize that it bothers you
2006-08-22 02:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing is happening to me and my gf still cant get enough.....look at my question and ull see what im talking about...and if ur young like high school dump her *** ....even college....its hard after college though so i hope urs ends out better than mine.
2006-08-22 02:12:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, tell her how you feel,and if she dont change its time to cut your losses.
2006-08-22 02:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋