Okay i'm 16 and started dating this guy 7 weeks ago. He's 17 and we struck it of really well. We would hang together heaps cos we were on holidays, so he would work in the day and hang with me at night. I'd hang with his friends and everything. It was going well and we progressed rather quickly. Neither of us were sexually experienced, i was a virgin and he had done it once a long time ago. Then his best friend started to hate me. Just a few little things and i was goign through a depressive state, not too bad but not great. And his best friend jsut bitched about me and he brokeit off with me. It hurt and he said we weren't clicking but i found that hard to understand cos just the day before we were making out and stuff. Anyway we were friends and maybe two weeks after we broke up (Our relationship was for a month) we got together and had drunken sex. He said that nite that he still had feelings for and i believe him. He has no backbone. I love him, but i don't know what to do. Help
2006-08-22 02:02:44 · 6 answers · asked by Bria 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
basic rule of life here hons-- and the hardest thing and number one lesoon in life and you said itt- he has no back bone-- your right, move on, dump him, hit the highwayy, this thing has nothing too stand on, he has no back bone, i would sit downe with him very carefully and say lok you have no back bone, its time for you too hit the highway its overr with, really we can see there was nothing here too start with, it was wrong from the start you both were smashed out of minds when youi did the big bang, we doubt if it would ever work, time for you or him too hit the highway of life its over admit it you had zilch, nothing move onn!! if you dont its a lifetime of a loser in the dude!!
2006-08-22 02:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason ur asking is bcoz there's still doubt in ur mind, and till those doubts , whatever they are , are not cleared do not proceed. From ur info, I feel he might be a good guy or a good confused guy , or a bad guy who's managed to fool u to think he's good.
2006-08-22 09:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel obligated to stay with him because you lost your virginity to him. Like you said, he has no backbone, so what good is that to you? He is immature and dumped you because his friends were teasing him about you. Forget about him and move on.
2006-08-22 09:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it very difficult to build a relationship,otherwise it will collapse in a minute,so try to understand him,talk and you will solve the problem.otherwise you will burn inside without sharing o someone.Go now and talk to him,OK. i wish you a good and lasting relation.
2006-08-22 09:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by sol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find a man not a boy.
This guy seems like he's just doing things on whim, his friend doesnt like you so he leaves, hes drunk so he cares...
it's going to get worse if you stay
2006-08-22 09:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep him as a f'buddy. That way everybody will be happy.
2006-08-22 09:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by pablo h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋