When is it too soon to say...I Love You!?!?!? My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months now. I have been divorced for 2 years and this is the first guy that I have dated that has made me feel this way. We have talked about moving in together but is it too soon to say I love you?????
2006-08-22 01:57:30 · 24 answers · asked by dolphinscuriousdogs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also is it better to say it on the phone or in person? Sometimes if he is not extremely busy during lunch time I get to talk to him and was wondering if it would be strange to say it on the phone????
2006-08-22 02:18:07 · update #1
There can't be a set time on when it's too soon to say I love you. It's different for every couple. Just as long as when you say it, you really mean it and it's coming from your heart. I met a guy the last week of April, and we communicated almost every day for two months. We both knew we really liked each other and the relationship was continuing to grow. One day out of the blue he told me that he loved me. I was totally taken by surprise, because I have never been in this serious of a relationship before. Anyway, I really had to think and pray about it for a while before I was sure I knew I loved him back. I thought I did right when he said it, but I didn't want to be too hasty. After about two weeks we were having a serious conversation and all of the sudden I had this realization that I trust my boyfriend so much, and I know I love him, so I shouldn't be afraid to say it. And I did!!! It was the best thing I could have done. We are so in love and moving forward, really promising that we'll have a solid future...Good luck!
2006-08-22 02:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by treefrog_32 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is its to soon to say I love you or move in together. Its better to say I love you face to face since its a personal and intimate thing. Plus, you want to observe the facial reaction and body language, which is more honest than verbal. I think you are "high" on the thrill of dating an exciting man again and the "high" is affecting your thoughts. If its love, there will be plenty of time to say it, after it has been proven to be real. Just don't rush into anything. Remember, get the big picture and always leave yourself a way out if things go astray.
2006-08-22 10:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ntrigue1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love someone, then it is never to soon to tell them. Remember we are not promised tomorrow and it is best to let them know how you feel about them so if something did happen...they'd know.
However, if you don't really know for certain it is love and you are not sure about a commitment, then it's best to wait. In the long run you'd end up confusing and hurting that person.
2006-08-22 09:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never too soon to say it as long as youmean it form the heart. My husband and moved in togeather 1mt after we were togeather and we have been togeather every since then and it has been 5yrs. The first time that he said that he love me was maybe 2wks into the relationship
2006-08-22 09:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to say i love you in person then on the phone cause it gives the illusion ur actually there, if that makes anysense... but 2 months is ok, i said i love you after 2 months, cause i did.
2006-08-22 09:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is to soon to say I love you then is is way to soon to move in together! You need to tell him how you are feeling. Always Always be honest and say what your feelings are.
2006-08-22 09:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by anne04char 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know how you feel. My advice is don't say I LOVE YOU unless you honestly mean it. I do think that it is too early to move in together, though.
2006-08-22 10:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by sapphire9580 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its too soon, when you say it first! Let the guy say it first because you know how they are so different with there feelings than we are...I would feel more comfortable and stable if he says it first....Dont play yourself...its okay to feel the way you feel though...Just remember...Have fun! Love life!
2006-08-22 09:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two months is not too soon, two dates is.. Be sure you really know him before moving in together.. is my advice.. Two months is not long enough to know what you've got.
2006-08-22 09:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by enquiring mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm lets see well if you really love him then its never to soon to advise him of your fellings but make sure you are ready for the response he may give you and as of moving in together wait awhile that is a big step in your relationship you must take a long look at your self and make sure you are ready for him and you together as one because living in the same house picking up after him cooking etc......... make sure you are ready!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-22 11:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋