what i want to know is that did i make the the right decision by breakin up with him becos i felt that i should be with a guy who loves me just as much, the problem is I STILL LOVE THIS GUY and want him back to give another try! do guys think i should?
2006-08-21 23:54:43 · 23 answers · asked by pisces red 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Different people have different levels of love. Who's to say whats right or wrong.
2006-08-22 00:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by Rudebox77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very difficult subject.
I think you have done right to break up with him.... and you deserve to find somone that loves you just as much back.
If I had a girlfriend and she told me that she didnt love me, I would say one thing "Is there anyway I could get you to love me?" If the answer is "No", then I'd let her go.... as much as it would hurt, I would rather be with someone that loves me than anything!!!! --- No matter how I feel about her!!!
If there is no hope of him loving you the same as you do to him... your best without him. It is going to be difficult... but you will eventually get over him. It takes time and patience. It may be best not to have him in your life at all.... as a boyfriend, or a simple friend.
I hope you find someone one day... that will love you the same way as you do to him... and good luck!!!!
2006-08-22 00:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've broken up with him and then decide you want him back, that will send out the wrong messages to everyone. When you make a decision, think carefully about the consequences. If my gf dumped me and then wanted to get back together, I'd feel like a fool if I obliged. No. You should stand by your decision and accept the consequences in my opinion. But I don't know your history. Your circumstances may be different to how I imagine them to be.
2006-08-22 00:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey
I have personal experience of this! A good mate of mine, was with his lass for about a year but then broke up with her because he wasnt sure if he loved her or not. Anyway, 2 months went by, he realised he culdnt be without her, got back on his knees, she took him back, and theyve been together for 4 years and very happy!
Distance makes the heart grow fonder, so time will tell!
2006-08-22 00:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by Chris O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand how u measure love?? if u broke up with him then why are u second guessing ur self?? u made a decision ....stick to it!! Do u want to put urself thru the pain of always having to feel tat he doesnt love u enough?? Or being scared tat he will find someone whom me might love more than u?? your call!
goodluck
2006-08-22 00:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by nice_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ask me, no, it wasn't the right decision. i mean the guy loves you...why do you want him to love you more than he can give? how would you even know that he loves you less than you love him? loving you less doesn't mean he's bound to go & look for someone else. your idea of love is different from his idea of love, but that doesn't mean he is not doing the best way he knows how in loving you. what you should have done is try to find ways for him to love you more!
2006-08-22 00:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by kevkatz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're sounding just a little toooo desperate. You answered your own question...YOU DESERVE! so, why are you second guessing you worth? If you take him back now, you're just confirming that's it's okay that he's doesn't love/care as much as about you. It'll only be a matter of time until he finds someone who yanks his chain more.
LET HIM STAY DUMPED!
2006-08-22 00:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself that question. Where you truelly happy with him? If he didn't love you as much as you loves him- there's no telling if he'll love you at all. But, at the same time- you'll never know. You have to find the question within yourself. Love is the condition in which someone else's happiness is essential to your own. Where you happy?
2006-08-22 00:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by bratworth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on ...uve opened yourself wide open to being hurt with this relationship.
Why did you feel the need to even discuss who loves who more it does sound a tad childish.
Go with the flow and see what happens in a relationship and stop analysing it so much. xx
2006-08-25 05:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do tell us. You loved him 10 and he only loved you 8? Or how does it work?
I think you should leave him alone - for HIS sake. You need to get your head together, unless you're 14, in which case it's normal.
2006-08-22 00:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by Taxedman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋