Today is the big day....
i'm a lil nervous.... u see, i am a cheerleader at my skol, and alot of guys like me... I've been dating this guy name Trey now for 8months.... and he's really fun, nice, caring, and not to mention hott!
i haven't had sex yet and am still a virgin.... and he really keeps asking me if i want to have sex with him....
I told him not yet, over and over again....
then i promised him i would this saturday....
he's 16 i'm 15.... I'm a little scared, not cuz of getting preggy, but doesn't the first time hurt??
Many have told me that it hurts the first time like hell.... But what about the 2nd or the 3rd??
and how long does it heal after the first time u lost ur virginity??
it sounds like its in great pain....
i am hella nervous....
but alot of ppl say it's good.....
but since saturday is a long ways, can someone give me an advice??
2006-08-21 23:54:15 · 11 answers · asked by prEppy_rOxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it. Believe me. You'll regret it someday.
2006-08-21 23:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you take it from me Don't do it
first you are too young .. both of you 16 and 15 is too early and too young
second you should want to as much as the guy wants it .. and it is clear that you want to do it because he wants it
third and that is the most important one you should not do somethig just to please the guy you are going out with .. this is something really personal and you should want to do it .. it is a one time life experience so do not waste it with someone very special
give it time dear and wait .. I say it is something you do not plan on doing it just comes alone without you planning for it .. when you find someone who gets into your heart then things will lead to each other without him asking for it nor nagging about it ..
sorry to say it but some guys just go with girls to get that out of them and then leave them .. it happened a lot .. I am not saying that Trey is like that or might do that .. but then you do not want to experience that ..
wait till you know how your feelings really are and what you really want .. trust me you are more important to do what you want than doing what others want you to do you'll end up pleasing everyone but not yourself
wait and give yourself time to know life and how it works
2006-08-22 00:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends if he knows what hes doing. By the sounds of it, he's like a horny dog so i guess that he might know. It all depends if his head is filled with visions of his first time being like a porno. Otherwise if he really DOES like u and cares about u then it should be fine. Oh and it feels REALLY GOOD =)
2006-08-22 00:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by Shivy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he had sex before? Tell him to take it slow, it does hurt when he first enters. But after you get used to his 'size' and he starts to- *coughs* it will feel good. It depends if you guys really get it on. I couldn't walk the next day because what I did was WILD.
2006-08-22 00:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by bratworth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel really bad for u. it sounds like ur BF is pressuring u to "do it" and you shouldnt!! believe me you will be extemely proud of ur self later in life for telling this guy "No". wait untill the right guy comes along that u want to spend the rest of ur life with and get married then have sex. if u do it with someone ur not married to chances are u might regret it someday. PLZ TELL THIS GUY NO ITS FOR UR OWN SAFETY AND WELL BEING. and i bet ur parents would be extremely mad at u and they will prolly ground u for da rest of ur life..lol
2006-08-23 06:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by Xo♥Marissa♥oX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT !! he just wants a piece of you, it wont last, why does he keep asking u whether u wanna have sex with him. he is after sex my gal, dont do it and u r still too young. I have just recently lost my virginity at the age of 21 so dont rush lol
2006-08-22 00:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Nasta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there,
i have to say that although your parentsa are not going to want me to say this. That it doesn't hurt. make sure that you warm up to the idea first and make sure that he doesn't force you to do things that you don't want to do.
best of luck hope it is what you expected, oh bye the way everyone is nervous but just take a deep breath and enjoy it
2006-08-22 00:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Ellezypoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
purely tell him your actual birthday. it really is going to not be a situation that you'll purely element out to him that you advised him the incorrect birthday. this is a small element to rigidity about, all you could be worried about being honest along with your boyfriend. i imagine your guy will delight in the actual undeniable truth that you advised him now really of later.
2016-11-30 23:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by zollicoffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything unless you really want to. You shouldn't feel pressured into having sex if you don't feel like you're ready. You'll only regret it.
Whatever happens, good luck!
2006-08-22 00:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by nev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to tale it slow.
And if you really don't feel like doing it, don't.
You are still very young.
2006-08-21 23:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋