2006-08-21 23:29:32 · 19 answers · asked by SeriouslyInLove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you stop wondering "When is the appropriate time to give yourself to someone?" and both of you start thinking in terms of "we" and "us".
It is an act of partnership, not a zero sum game. It should be the aim of both people to (a) ensure the other is enjoying themselves, (b) enjoying each other, and (c) enjoying themselves. Not doing all three results in someone being unhappy and unfulfilled, which results in the other eventually being unhappy and unfulfilled.
Words from the school of
"Been there. Made that mistake. Try not to repeat my mistake".
2006-08-22 00:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you feel you are comfortable at that moment or atmosphere... There's no time or a specify duration on how long can you wait before you give yourself to your new bf..It all depends on how much you trusted him and how comfy you are with him...But always remember the safety precautions first than regrets later...
2006-08-21 23:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are both ready and it just happens. If either one puts pressure on, it is not a good time. Always, wait. I was 18. Geriatric by todays standards. My friend was 24.
2006-08-21 23:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, after marriage of course...
But if you want to give yourself anytime... there's no better time than having yourself ready for the consequences after such act.
2006-08-21 23:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by huggermugger4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love, that is your anwers, if you have a true feeling that he wants to be with you and will be their for you.
and if you have true trust, that he is not out for a bed partner only
women say men are pigs, but some of us pigs have feeling.
the appropriate time is when you are ready, men do play games as women do. feel him out, does he care for you?
2006-08-21 23:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you trust someone and when desire is strong and when you know that someone well and when you both feel like it and when there is consent on both sides, and when you're both in a private quiet romantic room, I think it is time.
2006-08-21 23:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by rabb b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in love and they are in love with you. And when enough time has past for you both to build a foundation of trust and understanding.
2006-08-21 23:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas, any special holiday or special occasion, but don't forget to wrap yourself first!
2006-08-21 23:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you really luv that someone and you feel it's the right time
Be sure there will be no regret,about giving urself & abt that person too.
2006-08-21 23:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you giving
if it is your 'organs' ...than when u die
if it starts with s * *
than when u are married
is there an appropriate time
when u understand what you are wanting to give up will ultimately be your v*******Y
2006-08-21 23:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by Martin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋