How do I get less jealous? When should I be afraid?

Question

I have a long distance relationship with my girldfriend and i trust her and in my head i know shes being faithful but sometimes i just feel like **** about it... Shes usually tells me just about every aspect of her life but sometimes she stops for awhile. We contact each other every day. She goes to another school, we were never in a close-distance (right term?) relationship, but we were bestfriends for awhile, i visit just about every months. She seems fine but sometimes i just feel really suspicious deep inside, im sure its just paranoia or something but my feelings dont often let me down.

Answer 1

If you are that confident that she is faithful to you, then don't think too much..Try to focus on your studies or your leisure..
She didn't contact you sometimes doesn't mean she's doing something behind you and you know..She's just busy or maybe it slip her mind?
It's seems that you both are fine in this relationship, afterall, you both still meet each other once awhile..Jealousy?There should have some..I used to be like you or rather i'm still like you now..Suspicious with my bf..Even he went working i suspect he lied sometimes..But we have to control our mind and not let the mind control us..Tell yourself that i trust her..if she's gonna cheat on me, then let it be and that will be my fate..Try not to give yourself too much stress on this matter, let her know how you feel to make yourself feel better, if not, one day you can just burst out every nonsense to your gf and have a very big fight and that's when nothing to be done to save the relationship anymore.

Answer 2

Love but expect the worse. Its all a game of luck. People can change without warning and the pain is unbearable. Try to let her go for a while and see her reaction. if she asks you what you have been upto and why you have not called...then you dont have anything to be afraid of.Be very cautious when you have a long distance relationship. You need to be very strong to face the truth. if you get your heart broken....it will take a while for you to be on track again. Its all luck when it comes to relationship between a boy and a girl caus you never know when someone can suddenly change.

Answer 3

Ok honestly, I think you should end your relationship with her. Long distance relationships are very hard to get through and especially if you just know her on the internet. Your fears and paranoia will only get worse over time as you may have figured out. Simply because you live so far away and you're not going to be able to see her or whatever. You should end it before you get hurt even more painfully, because from experiance, its very possible.

Answer 4

As bein in a long distance relationship myself I'm feeling the exact same thing about my boyfriend. I think it's just a thing that you feel. Every long distance relationship I've been in I feel it so maybe its just a thing that comes with the distance. Ask her to honestly answer you about what your feeling.

Answer 5

Put a GPS tracker on her cell-phone. Just joking: Chill man, if it's going to work it will. Why worry about things you can't control. Instead of worrying why not think about the good times you shear!

Answer 6

if you truly trust your girlfriend then you don't have to be jealous. you should not be afraid of anything because you should know that when you love someone you automatically give that person a priviledge of hurting you unintentionally, or worse intentionally..

Answer 7

long distance relationships never work

Answer 8

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