I have a hard time knowing if a girl is really into me. I think im ok looking.But im too nice. I think that they become scared that im not into them after a period of time. And they just want to be friends. I have areally bad fear of rejection, and never make a move. any pointers????
2006-08-21 23:16:58 · 9 answers · asked by Mike K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the girls only want to be friends, it means they only like guys with a mean attitude. I don't think you'll stay happy being with such girls. You need a nice girl, and you will meet that person when the time is right. Meanwhile, stay nice.
2006-08-21 23:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sounds played-out, but my best advice is to be yourself, for starters. The last thing you want to do is be fake, because the girl falls for that fake guy, and if you don't feel like putting on sucha' front forever, then I'd be natural. Secondly, be aggressive. Try to kick your fear, it will work better for you in the end. You'll forget about being rejected, soon enough, and if you don't get rejected, then you end up with a chick on your arm.
2006-08-22 06:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Miss T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know if a girl likes you if u don't make a move. Actually, there's no general guideline on how to tell if a girl is into u. For me, if i like a guy, i tend to like to be around him most of the time. And, u know when they say that u can see it in the eyes? Sometimes its true. A little advice........ u can't win 'em all. It pays to just be yourself. Good luck!
2006-08-22 06:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by beatrice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are ready to be physical, you'd be able to talk to a girl. Call her up and say "hey, theres some things i want to talk to you about. Whens the next time I can see you?" then, when you do see her explain to her that you care about her, and you would only want to be physical if she wanted to be. Show her that you're not looking for someone to fool around with, she means more to you than that. :] good luck :]
2006-08-22 06:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by sprinkles<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember if they say no, its not the end of the world. Just be yourself and talk to them, dont try to hard. If you really like a girl, and you think she may like you just ask her out. That is really the only way, unless a girl asks you.
2006-08-22 06:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by johnny swanberg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be too scared.
over come your fears!!!
i know a lot of guys who have succeded.
like this one guy, he was too scared to tell me that he liked me for like 2 months, and then he told me, and that changed the way i thought of him.
any girl can be impressed.
even a really-hard-to-impress girl like me.
2006-08-22 06:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Clover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit your defeatist attitude. Girls like bold and courageous people. Do not be too cautious. Be casual and you will be accepted.
2006-08-22 06:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great guy .... that's good. Make a move only when you are ready, don't rush. Otherwise, you scarce everyone away.
2006-08-22 06:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and get the book "How to make friends".
2006-08-22 06:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋