Black and White?

Question

I'm a black chick who loves white guys. I like my black men too. But there's something about a fine-*** white man that get to me. Maybe cause their outside of my race and it's out of the "norm"???
And how come a black man can date a white woman, and it's all good? But when a black woman dates a white man, people wanna look at them crazy?

Answer 1

white women look at white men that date black women badly because they think white men can do better.

when there is a black man and a white woman couple the white men think the same thing... you can do better than him.

white people believe they are the most attractive race and think when they see a man or woman with someone that is not white that they are letting the white race down as well as society.

Answer 2

OK, I think this is a vicious cycle.

Any color of WOMAN wants to be in a relationship where her peers envy her and that makes her feel more accepted by those around her.
When a black woman likes a white guy, everyone hates on it and so she backs off.
So don't let it bother you, and if you stick with it, maybe it'll become more accepted.

I love black women. They are so incredibly sexy, they smell intoxicating, their bodies are shaped so perfectly...the hottest white woman is about as hot as the average black woman.
Problem is I can't get a black woman to look at me!
Most black women seem to consider white men as something other than men. Like, all the threat of a man but none of the good stuff. At least that's what black women treat white men like in Phoenix and Tempe.

Answer 3

Sweetheart, listen. I am a white man and I have dated both races. I see what you are talking about. I am in no way prejudice but I have many black friends and we are best buds. So I hear all the word from both sides and this is my summation. Most black men date white girls for sport. They even get them pregnant to have baby mama bragging rights. They have a mixed baby just to prove they had a white girl. Now on the other hand black men cant stand seeing a sister with a white man and it drives them nuts. Its all about the white man is supposed to already have everything why does he have to have our women too. I hear it all the time from my friends. We are so close now that they forget I am white and just tell it all. If you like white men, go ahead and the world can kiss your big beautiful black a**. I am sure if I knew you, I would love to kiss it. LOL Good luck!!!!!

Answer 4

Black men date white woman.Black men have children with white woman, Black men work with white woman, Black men love white woman Black and white are coming closer to gather .

Answer 5

HEY , I REALY LOVE UR QUESTION ! U hit things right on the head ! I'm Biracial (look at my profil) ! If i was a Black/White girl or of OTHER race, i would not date a Black man. Not because of the race, but because of the BEHAVIOUR of the Black men. I would date ONLY WHITE or COLOURED MEN ! They know how to treat a woman, respect her & take care of her. I am coloured & my girfriend is White. She dated few black men before me & told me they made her life a living hell. She thought to give them a chance because they kept chasing after her everywhere she went.
I see the Black men in Bars too chasing ONLY after the WHITE girls & i ask myself WHY ...BLACK GIRLS ARE SO PRETTY TOO, so WHY THEY ONLY CHASE THE WHITE GIRLS ONLY ?
GIRL ENJOY UR WHITE MAN & IF SOMEONE TELLS U SOMETHING,...TELL THEM TO GO TO HELL !!!

Answer 6

people say that size doesnt matter but everyone is different .. i am not saying that u have curves but most of the black girls have curves and its difficult for white guys to give as much satisfaction as the black guys do .. but looks like the white guy u are with is doing a pretty good job and there is nothing to think about it ..enjoy

Answer 7

OMG...

I've been waiting weeks to answer a question like this...

I love black women...

but since I moved away from Detroit...

and into this joke of a small town...

I rarely even see a black woman let alone be
able to get it on with one...

and the thrill does seem to be (both for you and for me) the fact that it is considered taboo to be with someone outside of your own race...

The thrill is unbelievable...

And we are not likely to cheat on them or leave them as easily as if we stayed within our own race...

I never had a problem with people looking at me like I was crazy....facts be known...I think they actually envied me...


You go girl....

If you love us white men... go with what your desires dictate to you...

The Hell with what other people think...

It's you that needs to be satisfied...not them!!!

Answer 8

Well we can't live our lives just to please people and to gain their approval, racism is to me so so silly, I just can't understand why people can be racist. If you like white guys then that is something you like and something you are attracted to, just as a white guy might be attracted to brunettes instead of blonds, look at it this way, it has nothing to do with color, it is just taste and preference. I am white and two of my best friends are married to black women and they beautiful kids and some people accept it some don't, but the important thing here is they are happy with their lives. The hell with what people think, as I said we can't please all people no matter what we do, so just live your life as you so chose to do, and do what makes you happy.

Answer 9

when a black man goes with a white woman, they know it is just a little thinng they are going through. but when a black woman goes with a white man, they know that its real and for what ever reason, that is insulting

Answer 10

This is the same thing as : gals filrt around and is called b|tch/s|ut but men went filrting, they are called cool/charming...It's the same theory i guess..
As long as you are comfy with your white man, who cares who look at you or say you? you both have to have an open mind to this...Especially you..If your man doesn't care, why you care then?
Just remember love is not measured by age, height or colour...